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Old Jul 12, 2007, 06:28 AM
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I am allowed to reject whoever I need to reject. And whoever I want to reject. And I am allowed to ignore whoever I want to ignore, for as long as I need or want to ignore them.
And I am allowed to change my mind I am allowed.
How other people deal with that is their issue, not mine. I am not put on this planet to enable other people. However, I may sometimes choose to do so.
Had I made this discovery some years back I would have saved myself much suffering.
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Old Jul 12, 2007, 07:15 AM
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I say this to myself dozens of times throughout the day.

If I could just "allow" myself to believe it!

I am allowed.
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Old Jul 12, 2007, 07:23 AM
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I don't like rejecting anyone.

I'm not a "horrible person"

But I used to unconsciously, make it so someone rejected me because I couldn't bring myself to "hurt" them by rejection. Not a "clever" thing to do. I am allowed.

I did it with my parents. Although they would have rejected me anyway because basically they couldnt give a flying %#@&#! about me I am allowed.
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Old Jul 12, 2007, 07:41 AM
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everyone is allowed thier own choice!
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Old Jul 12, 2007, 08:00 AM
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Thanks hon!! (((((((((((((((((( muffy )))))))))))))))))
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Old Jul 13, 2007, 03:08 PM
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In case anyone misunderstood this and was offended, I really dislike rejecting people as I know how much it hurts.

But so many people don't seem to think twice about dumping others, I've had to review my thoughts a little for self preservation. I have to think of..........oh never mind. I am allowed.
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