not sure where this one goes

not sure where to put this.. i would say relationship but im not havin a probelm with a relationship.... its me and other females thats the prob.... ok here it goes...... at times i want to make new friends.. like theres this girl at work i wouldnt mind being freinds with.. shes my age and shes pretty...... my issue is i dont trust females my age around my b/f.... i mean not saying she would want him or anything i just wont take that chance.... i totally trust my b/f its just ..idk..... ive just .. idont know how to explain it......

Hi Skittles,

It sounds like you have a hard time trusting other girls. Your history could have something to do with that. It's rough not being able to have friends though. Maybe something to talk to your T about. Or start making friends at work and hanging out with your friends without your boyfriend, and work up to double dates where they have someone there too when you feel ready. It's good to have friends, but not easy when you can't trust them.

I agree with Rapunzel...you don't have to be friends with this person and necessarily involve your boyfriend...it is healthy to have friends that are not necessarily in common between you and your boyfriend...especially since the person you want to befriend is not a guy...I wouldn't see why bf would have a concern...