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Old Jun 22, 2009, 01:46 AM
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I hope it is okay to say this but I am glad father's day is over. I hate it. I am happy for those who had good fathers but mine, I do not miss. I am glad he is gone. I am glad he is dead.

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Old Jun 23, 2009, 01:27 AM
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my biological father passed away before i was one, adoptive father was too busy boffing his secretary to develop any kind of relationship with us...but boy he sure had time to deposit those child survivor benefit checks. Yes siree bob. Asked him for help once financially...said he was all tapped out...guess he found time to spend those checks too. He's getting older and sicker. If i was an unloveable, cold, person, i'd probably enjoy watching him suffer. But ya know as far as time goes, i am all tapped out.
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Old Jun 23, 2009, 02:42 PM
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I am not sure that I understand your response... but that is okay.

I am neither cold or unloveable, just happy that he is no longer around to cause anyone else the pain that he inflicted on many people. He did not suffer he went quickly. Hi victims still battle and probably always will.
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Old Jun 24, 2009, 05:35 AM
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((((adii)))) - its a shame our scars dont go with the abuser when they go

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When you have come to the edge of all light that you know and are about to drop off into the darkness of the unknown,
Faith is knowing One of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on or you will be taught to fly.
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Thanks for this!
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Old Jun 30, 2009, 07:51 AM
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((((((adii)))))) I understand how you feel.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
Thanks for this!
adii
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