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Old May 28, 2010, 01:32 PM
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I got very angry and scared just now cause I was at another site-group for abuse survivors and an abuser posted on it.

I understand if some gps allow this, but it really freaked me out. I had shared much about my s*xual abuse there and now an abuser is there and heard it!

OMG.

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Old May 29, 2010, 04:28 PM
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Write a pm to an administrator---tell one---they'll take care of it!

S'okay------hugs-theo
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Old May 29, 2010, 10:58 PM
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ty but I don't know if they'll do anything. Rumor has it that some whackos own the site too.

I hope it's a rumor because the site h as helped me a lot.

Billi
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Old May 29, 2010, 11:02 PM
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Does not sound like a safe site to me. I hope you take care when sharing or maybe you might want to not post your abuse on that site.
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Old May 30, 2010, 12:54 AM
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Oh, I didn't realize you were talking about a whole other site.

I'm sorry!
Of all the sites I've been on, this has been the safest one, the most helpful, and I have told others to come here.

Nucking Futz is right---you have to be careful about the sites-- most are not moderated at all..........I think I know which one you are talking about too.
Also, the member you are talking about. I knew I knew you before.

Just don't go there! I totally changed my profile and obliterated all my "friends", as they were friends with someone who could get at me------oh do be careful!!!

Don't even go back to look----------You come First!!! You Take Care of You!!!!!

Hugging you billi leli---------------theo
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Old May 30, 2010, 08:24 PM
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It's DS. The site. Is that what you are talking about?

I have a good feeling about PC.

Do abusers post on this forum?

Just wondering.

On survivors of abuse forum?

ty,

Billi
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Old May 30, 2010, 09:46 PM
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Yeah stay off that site billi_leli, that place aint no good. Theo told me to come here after someone called me an abuser for talking about my abuse, this person wouldn't let anyone talk about any of their problems. It's the second site I've been attacked on and I'm still waiting for it on here. I can't talk about half the things I want to say because I'm so terrified at getting attacked again.
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Old May 30, 2010, 11:54 PM
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It's DS. The site. Is that what you are talking about?

I have a good feeling about PC.

Do abusers post on this forum?

Just wondering.

On survivors of abuse forum?

ty,

Billi
no Billi, abusers are not allowed to post here. This is a very safe site, I feel pretty safe here anyway. It is closely moderated.
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Old May 31, 2010, 11:24 AM
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Yes, and you knew Evening and I both-------Everyone there thought I was

"friends" with that creep---I played it very cool--I only succeeded in getting him banned for 2 lousey weeks though--after getting all bent out of shape, watching him hurt so many---I reported him over 25 times---they don't take care of their members. Evening was hurt very badly by him, and he made me watch it--I was so duplicitous; I wanted to really help, by getting him knocked off the site.

It made me very sick, and I still feel horrible about it today.

Here, you can always pm a moderator--and they are very adept at taking care of problems.

Because of the 5 first posts, they get a good idea of what you are like though; so they don't even let someone like him on to begin with...

I'm so sorry about what happened before billi leli--I thought I could get rid of him there.

It didn't happen. He's still there--stay away from there!!!---theo
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Old May 31, 2010, 11:39 AM
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Wait hold up, this abuser billi is talking about is the same guy?!
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Old Jun 02, 2010, 04:27 PM
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He's a younger guy and the site is Daily Strength. Sexual abuse group. they allow perps!

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Old Jun 04, 2010, 02:58 AM
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Okay that's not the same guy then.
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