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Old Apr 29, 2011, 03:01 PM
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I am feeling pretty low, yes on the royal wedding day and i have all day. I cant seem to motivate myself or anything- I am not even talking.

Tomorrow is the anniversary of 6 months when i got raped, and i feel very low. thiis is what i get like the day before 30th - feel low then even lower the next day.

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Old Apr 29, 2011, 03:14 PM
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Anniversaries SUCK!!!! I try to plan something fun with someone I know will come to my house and pull my butt out of bed if they have to... And usually that is what it takes.
Also remember that anniversaries pass and they do get easier over time... s...l...o...w...l...y.
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Old Apr 29, 2011, 03:23 PM
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i dont feel motivated on the low days and i dont feel like doing things and when i try i feel even more depressed
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Old Apr 30, 2011, 08:46 AM
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so sorry that you even have this anniversary!
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Old May 01, 2011, 07:42 PM
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Continue to try to not "celebrate" any anniversary, don't mark it on the calendar and try to not focus upon it. But I know... and I'm feeling for ya!
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Old May 03, 2011, 06:03 PM
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i dont do the above, but its something i cant forgt about it, its not my fault.i cant be expectd to gt over this on my own
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Old May 21, 2011, 03:34 PM
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Sorry autie4lyf that you're dealing with this. It must be hard. Just know there is support out there... and here as well. What happened to you is a violation of your right to control and it's not fair and you didn't deserve it - nobody does. You can take back control though. It's so hard, and sometimes you might just want to give up, thinking there's no way forward. But there always is. It's not going to be a sprint, more a marathon. And it takes a different amount of time for different people. It will get better. It may not seem like it now, but I promise you it will I really hope you'll be able to see that too. Keep posting, we're all here for you.

By the way, here's a question: I noticed you're from England and wondered if you'd ever been to a RASASC? Or do you see a counselor? It's difficult, but it might be beneficial. They won't force you to say anything you don't want to or make you go to the police if you don't want to. Try considering it.

Take care and I'm rooting for you
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