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#21
Ok i wouldnt really do it. I dont even think i'm physically strong enoughand i believe in a higher power that says," vengeance is
mine." I think that is the only way i will get justice. Through divine power. Through that power my abusers will repent and be saved, I hope or be punished. Either way,i get justice. |
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Vengeance must be kept inside as a fantasy only to be indulged as a secret toy one can not share for fear of being locked up. Simply for having a completely normal feeling toward someone who has hurt and abused them, and then gets to dance free. It may be selfish but society has left the victim with little other recourse. He is correct, it is flawed, because humans are flawed, I see no reason to live down to that, we can change and grow. Humans have always had the abilty to grow. __________________ Nammu …Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. …... Desiderata Max Ehrmann |
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Perhaps "Justice" is simply becoming better people than our abusers were in spite of all the damage they did to us ...
I guess that sounds kinda simplistic, but I gave up on getting justice from any outside resources a long, long time ago ... |
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#24
This is a very difficult question for a person who is struggling with PTSD to answer.
However it is a good question to put out there for discussion because it can help someone who struggles with PTSD that is a result from abuse of somekind. When someone is suffering from PTSD there is a tremdous amount of anger involved and it is very hard to extinguish this anger, it is very hard to reason THROUGH OR OVER anger. There is a lot to be considered when dealing with an abuser. Abusers definitely injure others but sometimes they do this because they were injured and distorted themselves and yet other times they abuse because they can only think of themselves and truely have no conscience. Awareness is the best way to prevention in many cases. And we have proven time and again that often it is human nature to be ignorant. Open Eyes |
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