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Old Dec 13, 2012, 10:59 AM
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Ok. So I feel like my problems are teeny tiney, because this particular issue is not huge. But I am going to ask for advice anyway, since everyone here is so supportive.

I had sustained a brain injury this past January 2011 which has prevented me from going into the field of work which I wanted to do.

I am however, cleared to start training again in January, in martial arts. I am so scared though. (since I got injured during a defensive tactics exercise for the profession I was going to go into)

I love training, it is my lifeblood. I miss it terribly. But the thought of stepping on the mat, the thought of allowing someone to touch me, and put that trust in a training partner when I was so horribly betrayed by my last 'partner' who hurt me, really scares the crap out of me. (not to mention, we roll a lot which involves my head going near the ground repeatedly)

I know I could just not go back to training for fun. I could avoid it completely and avoid this issue. But I really miss it! Part of me doesn't think I can do it, because I failed to protect myself, so what makes me think I am deserving of my rank and title in my particular art?

I know this isn't a huge deal, but it really is to me. ANY thoughts would be appreciated.

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Old Dec 13, 2012, 12:43 PM
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Why don't you go in to a type of martial arts that involves very little physical contact? They do exist but I don't remember the names at the moment. Once you're comfortable with the workouts and your stamina and agility build back up, you can go back to the more contact stuff. Just a thought.

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Old Dec 13, 2012, 01:57 PM
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I never thought of that...! I could look into it, I think tai chi is one? Thanks for the reply!
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Old Dec 13, 2012, 08:08 PM
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You can also elect not to do certain moves. A good school will accept whatever limitations you have (whether they are for safety or for personal comfort). Everything you do in a martial arts setting should be because you feel safe and comfortable doing it. A good school and teacher will respect your feelings and help you work around this issue.

The option of trying a similar, but less hands-on, art is also good. Nothing says that you can't try different things until you find the fit that feels just right.

I'm sorry you got hurt.
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Old Dec 16, 2012, 04:16 PM
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A brain injury is a huge deal ~ even "mild tbi's" cause many significant changes to one's entire life. The effect is very disappointing and depressing. A lot of people can't relate to the differences that we feel. They can only see the differences every once in a while, which they misunderstand & we often kick ourselves harder.

Sorry for my intervention here. Understanding the differences helps us accept them.
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Old Dec 18, 2012, 07:36 PM
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oh no need to apologize , Shez. You are completely right about TBI's. I do kick myself and expect that I should be better already after this year. but I do find small happiness in the small changes for the better. I know I am different than I used to be since this third concussion...
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 10:22 AM
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I've suffered many concussions (due to seizures), and it does make things harder. You just have to find things that you can do; I had to put down alot of the things that I loved doing for a long time. You sound like you're fairly recovered (physiologically), but don't push yourself too hard. It only makes it tougher.
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