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Old Sep 18, 2006, 01:36 PM
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Over a year now since the last trauma and I can still feel it so clearly. It's so fresh in my mind. The taste, the smell, the touch, the getures, the atmosphere suffocating me, stucked, trapped.

And I still can't talk about it. I can't share what happened. I just can't.

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Old Sep 18, 2006, 02:04 PM
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Old Sep 18, 2006, 02:07 PM
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I think just by acknowledging and sharing with us that something happened is an important step. I can't
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Old Sep 18, 2006, 03:56 PM
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Have you tried writing about it - not posting it here, just to yourself? It might help you get your thoughts organised, then maybe when you are able to talk about it it'll be easier for you.

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Old Sep 18, 2006, 07:10 PM
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A year isn't that long. You'll get there when you are ready.
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Old Sep 19, 2006, 10:38 AM
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Thank you all for your replies. I appreciate it!

No, maybe a year is not that long. I just want to block it and move on but then I know it can happen again and this is what is stopping me, i think, from dealing with it.

No, I can't write it down. I tried but just the few first words has upseted me so much that I stopped.

Thank you!
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Old Sep 19, 2006, 10:53 AM
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))))))) ) ) )timeO((((((( ( (( in your own time hon..... sorry it's still so raw. one day at a time, one word at a tme, one bit of healing at a time. you're doing it your won way. you'll get there. plug plug plug along, we're behind you all the way.
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Old Sep 19, 2006, 05:45 PM
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(((((((((((((( time0 ))))))))))))))) I can't

Thinking of you.
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Old Sep 19, 2006, 07:42 PM
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Thank you so much!
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Old Sep 19, 2006, 07:47 PM
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time hun, its been 12 years since i lived with my main abuser, and 7 since the last assault.

I still mostly can't talk about things, but at first I was just like you. I find it much easier to write now. Its the way things have gone with me.

Even if all you can write is ONE related word a day... that is progress. And also, realize that sometimes it takes a loooooooong time, and that is ok too. I wish i could wish it away for you, but you and I both know thats not able.
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Old Sep 19, 2006, 09:05 PM
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Thank you sweetie!

I'm walking on egg shells to prevent it from happening again.
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Old Sep 21, 2006, 09:45 AM
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......and eggshells suck..... ))))) ) ))timeO ((((((( ((
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Old Sep 21, 2006, 07:20 PM
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)))))))Hillbunny((((((((

Thank you for caring!
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Old Sep 26, 2006, 05:23 PM
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It took me four years to say anything... don't rush yourself! In the meantime... we'll be here...
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