[CalamityJane425]

This goes out to the men.
You really need to think before you talk to a woman. Because most of us I can only speak for myself are not always in the mood for you to mess with us by your hidden jokes classic behavior of a narcisstic male who loves to tell you that you missed the joke. That is not cool, it is most immature and I usually don't have the patience to deal with such stupidity.
I will give you an example:
A fellow resident from the transitional home that I have but one more day to reside in got on the bus.
He sits down.
After he see's me he says but one word
"Well"
I reply with exactly the same word and that was
"Well"
This guy replies with:
"That's a deep thought"
Now at this point this guy is getting on my nerves, first he is impolite 2nd he is impolite. I don't do sarcasm or sarcastic games . Nope had enough of that in my earlier part of my adult hood. It's abuse. But wait this gets worse.
The guy keeps running his mouth with the following:
"Hey I'm just kidding, I don't know you, I was on a submarine for a lot of years ( I really don't care about that one bit)
he continues to say:
"But I know not to talk to you again"
I'm not perfect, so its at this point I say to him that he is annoying
We went back & forth.
Then out of the blue he said
"And I never had sex with my Mother"
WHOA!
I BOLTED off that bus like the Flash.
I did report him to my case manager hopefully they will talk to this moron.
But I'm still disturbed by it. It was a super gross & very disturbing statement to make.
In my opinion it was somewhat demonic and believe me when I say there are people in this world are like that.
I'm so glad I am out of this place tomorrow.
I found an apartment and it's pretty far.
Don't know if your aware people finding affordable housing is like trying to find a needle in a haystack.
Renting an apartment is extremely, extremely difficult with a wait time of 2 years average. So the one place I found was pretty far South of Seattle.
I'm grateful.
What I'm not grateful for is that piece of ****.
I'm tired of the mentally sick men that talk to women any kind of way. See I come from a family background where I grew up watching my Mom's get beat down REGULARLY so what this piece of **** said got to me to my deepest core.
I wouldn't mind beating him. I have PTSD so my thoughts? really went to a dark place much like Anakin Skywalker when he lost his Mother only not quite that bad.
I'm not into turn the other cheek, at least not now I guess I have to work on that, but I'm not there too much has happened AND I have no physical support I'm single battling a very unkind world with a mental illness dealing with other sick F**ks trust me when I say that that isn't easy.
Say some prayers for me will you?
I'm in a dark place right now.

[sandkitcat]

What the heck! Sounds like a total creep/weirdo....I'm sorry you had to deal with that! Some people have no clue how to behave and where there should be lines drawn......and he clearly had not even the faintest concept of that.

Hopefully the new place you find is a good one! I'm glad you're getting out of there too; people like that are far from pleasant to be around.


Much love!