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Old Jan 11, 2021, 05:57 PM
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Mobbing - that's a good word for it.

I used to belong to an online group of women and we were all friends. We threw parties and went out to dinner or shopping. It was great fun for 6 years.

Last year in April, one of them misunderstood something I did and confronted me in a text message. I wasn't willing to discuss it because I felt it was private and just a simple misunderstanding.

Then I started finding posts by others, who were not there saying I had done an awful thing to a young lady I was with. None of it was true and when I protested, I was attacked. As time went by, the woman who originally made an issue of it continued going to parties and venues telling people one ridiculous lie after another. A friend recorded it for me and I have to admit I laughed when I heard it because the things she was saying were so outrageous, I thought surely no one is buying this garbage. Wrong. I am now notorious and can never go back again. She has a large following that will pounce on me if I show myself.
I will admit, though, I do on occasion "poke" her - just to watch her go off. It's quite entertaining when she screams and yells at me to get help.
I am sorry this happened to you as it is very common nowadays as there is a culture of mobbing and revenge utilizing shame and humiliation culture.
There are a couple of brilliant forums that you can use for educational and comfort purposes, they are ( MobbedUK, and Flyingmonkiesdenied) these are two of the best ones I have found within the last year, I think they may have seen you as a scapegoat anyway just try to move on with your life the best you can.
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Old Jan 17, 2021, 08:47 PM
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I am sorry this happened to you as it is very common nowadays as there is a culture of mobbing and revenge utilizing shame and humiliation culture.
There are a couple of brilliant forums that you can use for educational and comfort purposes, they are ( MobbedUK, and Flyingmonkiesdenied) these are two of the best ones I have found within the last year, I think they may have seen you as a scapegoat anyway just try to move on with your life the best you can.
So why can't I stop obsessing about it? I am so pissed off over it, I wish I could make it stop. I have finally realized that the reason monsters like her always beat me is because I'm just not capable of doing the things they do.

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Old Jan 19, 2021, 10:02 AM
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So why can't I stop obsessing about it? I am so pissed off over it, I wish I could make it stop. I have finally realized that the reason monsters like her always beat me is because I'm just not capable of doing the things they do.

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It's normal to feel that way if you've been violated by a mob and not had your day in court so to speak.

It takes time to recover from your feelings of betrayal as they thrive upon betrayal and entrapment.

I think they love the attention as that's what their personality dis orders works.
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Old Apr 15, 2021, 06:15 AM
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I was bullied this way in school. I didn't know it at the time, but I was Bipolar 1, tending towards depression, and had PTSD from being severely abused by my mother.

It's like I had it written on my forehead - victimize me, I won't fight back.

The heartache I've endured with these memories is too heavy to bear. I just wanted to be loved by my mother and to go to school unmolested.

I've had no peace in my life.
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