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Grand Poohbah
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Location: Chalmette, Louisiana
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Jan 16, 2008 at 09:01 PM
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Someone i know sent me an email in response to an email i sent her. She told me i'm still in survival mode. And going through therapy where t is trying to bring it all out of me is going to keep me in that survival mode until everything comes out.
Do ya'll know anything about survival mode? How long it lasts? What are syptoms of it? I'm just feeling absolutely rotten today and trying to find answers. __________________ So often we dwell on the things that seem impossible rather than on the things that are possible. So often we are depressed by what remains to be done and forget to be thankful for all that has been done.--Marian Wright Edelman |
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Elder
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Jan 16, 2008 at 10:04 PM
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Yes ma'm, one active survival mode participator here and accounted for.
I don't know Chalm, geez, I've been on different levels of the mode for over 20 years. Have you asked your T his/her thoughts on this? Maybe its different for each of us, and dependent on current environmental stressors....I dunno know. Looking forward to some responses on this!  Dee __________________ Parce que maman l'a dit 
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Legendary
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Jan 16, 2008 at 10:05 PM
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If you can get The Courage TO Heal workbook, you may find it very helpful. It talks all about survival mode... i don't know your issues, but that book is around abuse and healing. I have found it helpful. how long you're in that mode depends on each individual, of course. and it is cyclic, so you'll probably be in it more than just one time.
Hope that helps. Kiya __________________ Credits: ChildlikeEmpress and Pseudonym for this lovely image.   alt="Universal Life Church | ULC" border="0">
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Jan 17, 2008 at 01:35 PM
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I think of Survival mode, as a way of coping, it is defenses we put up to protect ourselves, and we hang on to those defenses as long as we need to. Through therapy as you release some of the feelings, you will find some of the defenses do come down. And you can move past just surviving to a place where you can enjoy life, and not feel the need to keep your guard up all the time.
I know for myself, I lived along time just surviving, getting by day by day, but now slowly I look to enjoy each day. Give it time. |
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Grand Poohbah
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Jan 17, 2008 at 07:54 PM
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Thank ya'll for answering. I'm sorry ya'll are all in survival mode too.
My t has me this week for homework writting down what, who and why of anger in me. She's told me that when i work through all that anger and get it all out, i'll feel much better. I guess thats what gradually releases the survival mode. Kiya, thanks for mentioning the workbook you used. I'm glad it helped you out. My trauma came from Katrina. And i'm finding out in thearpy from earlier moments in my life. I saw my pdoc today and he gave me a diagnosis of bipolar now. So, i'm going to be on a new med. I'm thinking maybe finding this out might help me along. I dont know. I dont know that it even matters. Thanks again for ya'lls responses. I send ya'll all hugs from me. __________________ So often we dwell on the things that seem impossible rather than on the things that are possible. So often we are depressed by what remains to be done and forget to be thankful for all that has been done.--Marian Wright Edelman |
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Legendary
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Jan 17, 2008 at 10:49 PM
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(((((chalmette))))))) ahhh katrina. you have my hugs and sympathies. I also have some ptsd from that gal... but i was just a relief worker. lots of hugs and support to you!
kiya __________________ Credits: ChildlikeEmpress and Pseudonym for this lovely image. alt="Universal Life Church | ULC" border="0">
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Grand Poohbah
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Jan 18, 2008 at 12:33 AM
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(((((kiya)))))thank you for coming down here to help out.
I've talked to and know alot of people that have volunteered down here. Some in the beginning and some more recent. Ptsd runs rampant among tya'll too. I'm sorry you had to see this area in despair. I hope one day you make it back down here to gulf coast region, when we have rebuilt and gotten some life back. __________________ So often we dwell on the things that seem impossible rather than on the things that are possible. So often we are depressed by what remains to be done and forget to be thankful for all that has been done.--Marian Wright Edelman |
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Legendary
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Jan 18, 2008 at 02:01 AM
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Me, too. I feel that New Orleans now owns part of my heart and soul. I want to really see how things are - see the French Quarter alive and bustlin' - not a ghost town. And all the rest of the area relishing life again. I was also down in Venice, along Lake Ponchatrain, Queen Mary's, and the 9th among others. I also want to go back now and keep helping - was there in December after she hit.
I remember i was trying to get mental health workers into an area and the local guy helping us felt i was misguided. I do hope people are doing alright - not a day goes by i don't think about everyone down there. kiya __________________ Credits: ChildlikeEmpress and Pseudonym for this lovely image. alt="Universal Life Church | ULC" border="0">
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