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Location: Western Australia
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Feb 18, 2012 at 07:00 PM
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So its been 3 months since my baby girl was birthed so traumatically. Ripped from my body because my body was failing us both.
Miss A is still in hospital and until she stops her Brady and destats she won't be home. I'm not coping. Driving over an hour to get to the hospital to see her, staying all day. It's way draining. I got diagnosed with PTSD after 6 weeks of being a mum. It's been a rough road and I cry every night. I've recently started drowning my thoughts with either temazepam or alcohol. I can't do this much longer .. Sent on the move with Tapatalk. |
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Feb 21, 2012 at 01:47 PM
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I know how your feeling we have had to deal with this a few times within our family alcohol is not the answer but I know how easy it is to turn to it when your in need please if you want to chat you can message me anytime xx
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Aug 06, 2012 at 09:04 AM
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Just an update.
After 92 days of miss a being in hospital, we have her home. She is now 8 months old. Nearly 6 months adjusted and doing reasonably well. So was I until I recieved my medical records. |
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Mar 20, 2014 at 10:20 AM
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Wow. Seeing this post and comparing to now...
Here's another update. Went to therapy, failed. Tried meds, failed. I am still managing pnd, guilt and really severe anxiety and PTSD. My health has deteriorated. My blood pressure and heart rate going all over the place. They are thinking now it could be from the severe pet I had in my pregnancy that's done irreversible damage. They did warn me about that. Anyway my Bp meds are supposed to help with anxiety. They are not tho. Atenolol sucks! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Mar 31, 2014 at 07:32 AM
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Hmmm
 meds ontop of meds just been put on an antidepressant again. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Apr 02, 2014 at 05:05 PM
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I spend a year after my third child was born with what I now know was PPD. I even went to the dr but got no treatment or diagnosis.
I felt like I was dragging myself through wet concrete every day just to get the basic things done. My kids were 4 and 2 when the youngest was born. She was born with a congenital cataract in her right eye. It's was a very stressful time. There is a saying " I would have a mental breakdown but I don't have time" that's what I remember of that time, I just keep doing because the kids needed me to. I don't know how I got through and came out the other side with a marriage and three kids intact. I hope you can get the treatment you need to help get yourself through this, you have had it very rough with a traumatic delivery and issues with the health of your little one. Try not to despair there is light at the end of the tunnel. |
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Apr 14, 2014 at 08:03 AM
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Thank you lillybet I'm trying but it seems things are too hard at the moment.
I ended up having a breakdown. My marriage is hanging by a thread due to my husbands aggression and anger issues. He said something the other night which made me really hate the person I've become, and he isn't the same person I fell in love with. The dr has recommended temazepam as I'm not sleeping and I cry at the drop of a hat at the moment. I can't wait till I can pull myself out of this rut! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Apr 14, 2014 at 12:43 PM
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Apr 15, 2014 at 08:50 AM
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Thanks. She's now nearly 2.5 yrs old and it's still affecting me so bad.
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May 01, 2014 at 01:14 PM
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i'm a father with what i believe to be ppd. my first baby was born with congenital heart condition. She will be a year old in 6 weeks. even though she had her heart surgery last month and is doing great, i'm still struggling with my depression. I've been struggling with depression for 10 years but it usually doesnt last more than a few months, but ever since my baby was born my depression has been pretty constant.
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May 06, 2014 at 02:17 AM
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Just seen the gp and put on 50 mg pristiq. Took first tablet and feeling terrible
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May 07, 2014 at 09:27 AM
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Oh I hate pristiq
Was told to keep an eye on my blood pressure and if it got over a certain point to stop taking the pristiq (if in first week) as it will harm my blood pressure too much(already on meds for that) We'll took my blood pressure today and tonight. Suffice to say, won't be allowed to touch another tablet of pristiq. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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May 23, 2014 at 06:26 AM
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I've been crying non stop for hours. I am over feeling this way. I wish I could flick a switch and get over it like everyone else is telling me
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May 28, 2014 at 08:29 AM
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Feeling awful
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May 29, 2014 at 08:17 PM
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I am so sorry you are still struggling. Please get some help. You are not alone. You are important and are priceless. I am struggling too with postpartum stuff and my baby is completely healthy and no birthing problems, so I'm so sorry you've had so much more to deal with. They say they give the hardest battles to the strongest soldiers. That's why you have these challenges. To overcome them and become a better person. Have you ever seen a psychiatrist? They are so much better than a general practitioner for prescribing meds. They went to med school too, but specialize in mental health. I did not get any decent help with feeling better about my major depressive disorder and anxiety until I saw a psychiatrist. Get in to one ASAP. Find a therapist and get in ASAP. You deserve happiness and you deserve to enjoy your children without being so sad. I promise things can get better. I am trying to make things better for myself and it's hard. So know you are not alone. Anything worth doing is not easy.
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Jun 04, 2014 at 10:03 AM
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And things keep getting worse. The last few days have been a blur. My (now ex) husband has been cheating on me for the last 7 years on and off
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Oct 20, 2014 at 09:46 AM
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Thank goodness I am due to see a psych in a few days!
I can't handle this all on my own. I had a couple of breakdowns since my last post. Hubby and I are still trying to work around things but it's very rocky. He has severe anger issues and I'm stuck in this bloody rut They tried me on a few different antidepressants. None of which work so I'm back to crying myself to sleep every night as well as constant panic attacks and barely being able to focus or sleep! Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Oct 20, 2014 at 09:47 AM
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And attempting to act like I'm okay around everyone, just so I don't hurt their feelings...
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Oct 21, 2014 at 08:26 AM
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Psych tomorrow thank god! Really not coping
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