159 & Rising ok

B 3yrs ago I was a happily married (18yrs) & hard working father of 2. Today I'm divorced with a son in college who hates his mother & a 14yr old daughter I haven't seen in 2yrs who mosty likely is NOT my biological daughter. That honor goes to my sister's ex-husband who my ex-wife married 6 months ago. A secret "spur-of-the-moment" marriage in a different state because our son would've forbidden her. After 18 months as friend-boyfriend-husband, this man has only spent 3minutes, yes minutes, in my son's presence.
He hid in background & orchestrated the most vindictive evil divorce imaginable. My ex-wife carried out his "3 Rules of Divorce" to perfection: 1) She never speaks to me again, that's.what lawyers are for. 2) Slowly pull the kids away & make them hate their father. 3) Destroy ME totally.
He is a Sociopath/Malignant Narcissist. She is a Covert Narcissist. I am their target. I am not human to them. After 30 months of living in he'll I have no choice but to escape & disappear. They took my heart, mind, body, soul, respect of the community,, my job, my savings, my retirement, my home, my kids and my FREEDOM.
I'll start from scratch elsewhere. Starting with learning how to smile again. It's been that long & that bad.