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Jun 11, 2009, 12:06 AM
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Along time ago when i took my neices to a t she did family t. i was so young and lost. She was so nice to me. She spent hours with us ignoring her waiting appts and if i tried to leave she would say no. She had me come alone and forced me to tell her about the bad things that happened to me she wouldnt let me leave until i did. She started coming to our house and taking over my life. She was going to adopt me. I called her mom.she started to get mean to me by triggering me on purpose and hang up on me. If i objected she turned it around so i was a bad humen. She got married and then stopped all contact. She hurt me badly.
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Jun 11, 2009, 12:19 AM
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Whoa. That is awful.
 Hugs to you. 
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Jun 11, 2009, 03:41 AM
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wow. that is ridiculously bad therapy! so sorry you experienced this mini.
safe hugs if wanted.
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Jun 11, 2009, 09:11 AM
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Minime, That is just terrible! I'm so sorry, Minime. I can imagine how deeply that must have hurt you. You're so brave in telling us about this. Were you able to get any help to deal with your feelings of abandonment?
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Jun 11, 2009, 09:19 AM
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I think that's one of the worst Ts I have ever heard of.
I am so sorry that happened to you.
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Jun 11, 2009, 10:20 AM
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I am so sorry you had to go through this as a child. It wasn't your fault, I hope you know that, there was something really mentally wrong with this person. ( I can't call her your T, because she was NOT a T in any way).
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#7
Jun 11, 2009, 01:10 PM
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How long ago did this happen?
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Jun 11, 2009, 04:56 PM
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That is so horrible. I can not even imagine how anyone can be expected to deal with that. |
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Jun 11, 2009, 06:32 PM
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It was about 6 years ago. I was am adult but very youmg and alone and had adopted my 2 neices and i needed a mom so bad. She was a master at knowing how to mamipulate me. She told me what i needed to hear and i never had a chance. It was a long time before i could trust love from anyone.
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Jun 12, 2009, 12:23 AM
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This is true i just cant write it better as i am texting on my phone. It is bad but much worse i didnt put everything in like her making me pay her money to do mom stuff outside the agency. How she killed my heart in one phone call. It was so bad. All true.
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#11
Jun 12, 2009, 09:15 AM
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Do you need to talk more about it? We're here to listen. . .
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Jun 12, 2009, 12:14 PM
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