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Apr 26, 2010, 03:45 PM
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Hi Everyone
 I'm not sure I have long left with my psychologist and I'm really going to miss her. I know I have at least 10 sessions - hopefully more, she said I could spread them out, so every 2 weeks or once a month. She knows I'm going to find it hard and she knows I like her a lot. She's helped me so much, more than anyone else has and I know it can't go on forever, but it's going to hurt so much. I'm upset just writing this. I'm still going to see my nurse, I still have 2 years with her.
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Apr 26, 2010, 03:55 PM
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((((( Kurehu ))))) It sounds like you have a wonderful relationship with her. That is awesome. I can't even imagine right now what loosing my T would feel like. All I can do is offer you a hug.
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Apr 26, 2010, 10:44 PM
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 Losing someone who we've developed a close relationship with is hard, no matter what the reason.Is she going to help you find another psychologist, or will you just be going to your nurse from "now on"?
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Apr 27, 2010, 03:44 AM
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Thanks
Yeah we have a pretty cool relationship - she's changed my life. I just can't stop thinking of the last session. No I'll not be seeing another psychologist - I don't really think I'd want to , my psychologist said I like put her on a pedestal , so no one else could come close to her. I'll just be seeing my nurse - she's nice most the time, but we don't have the same thing.
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Apr 27, 2010, 04:35 AM
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man, that SUCKS!!! i know how important your T is to you, how much she helped you in a way you needed helping when all those other docs and nurses just didn't get it. i'm really bummed out on your behalf, kureha.
can i ask why you have to stop seeing her? is it an insurance thing? has she said if you can still contact her every now and again to let her know how things are going? i know how important she is to you, but i'm sure you're special to her also .
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Apr 27, 2010, 07:05 AM
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Thanks,
Yeah she was the only one that listened properly then - well my nurse still doesn't really get it, but we get on better than we used to It just really sucks though  It has to stop because it's time limited - she works for the NHS, hopefully I'll still be able to keep in contact now and then, she hasn't said, but I guess she'll let me know nearer the time.
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Apr 27, 2010, 08:24 AM
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((((Kureha))))) That is so sad. Im so sorry this is happening. Im sure you have asked all the questions, but is there any way she can see you now and then for a very reduced fee? Even for a short session?
That sounds so painful. Something that has helped me through really rough times like that is the thought that when one door closes, another one opens. I am glad you have your nurse and that maybe another door will open for you and maybe another therapist who you can connect with will find her way to you.
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Apr 27, 2010, 08:25 AM
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Kureha,
I'm so sorry you're going to have to stop therapy with your t! It sounds like she has played a very important, special role in your life. I hope you will have the opportunity to contact her now and then. She will always live in your heart!
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Apr 27, 2010, 12:32 PM
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Thanks
yeah she's amazing - I don't think any words can describe her properly actually.I don't pay to see her - she's with the NHS, I wish I did pay, then I wouldn't have to stop seeing her. I think they just have a set amount  I'm not sure I'd want to see another therapist, because to me - no one can compare to mine and that makes it seem pretty special. I really hope she can get me more sessions or have a break and see her again later, I'll always remember her though
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Apr 27, 2010, 01:34 PM
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Maybe you can see her again sometime in the future. I had to terminate with mine because I was changing jobs and moving so far away but I ended up seeing her 9 years later and it was even better than the first time. It's not just an "end" but the beginning of a new opportunity to see what you can do with what you've learned and see where life is going now. It was lots of fun seeing her later, we had BOTH grown; that had never occurred to me, but Life does that; she had that much more experience too.
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Apr 27, 2010, 01:36 PM
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Gosh I know how this feels. I only had my fourth session with my psychologist recently. and Im already thinking about "the end". I am however, glad to hear you have created this bond between you two. Im happy she has helped you so much in your healing journey
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Apr 30, 2010, 06:12 AM
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Well I hope if I need to see anyone again - I hope it's her, well actually I wouldn't see anyone else but her, no one else seems to understand and my nurse won't believe a word I say.
Thanks - she's been great - well she still is - just going to miss her a lot 
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