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Oct 24, 2010, 03:07 PM
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There are other times that it was good. I really like my t and I know she'll be nice to me, but the waiting......I'm thankful I'll see her tomorrow morning. I usually get pretty uptight the day before I go. I want to accomplish things while I'm there, but doing the work is kind of daunting. |
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Oct 24, 2010, 03:34 PM
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I really feel like my T is resistant to spend much time talking about our relationship, but I know people here would say that it's me. And so I've been thinking about that a lot today. Maybe it IS me. Maybe I just feel it's coming from T because I'm so scared to go there much myself and she's just following my lead. Maybe. That said, my T doesn't follow my lead very often, lol, and so maybe it IS her and/or maybe it's a DBT thing. 
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Oct 24, 2010, 09:24 PM
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 Promise, promise!  I guess I was thinking about the fact that most of my ruptures with T have been misunderstandings about his intentions - that he wants to get rid of me, or he's tired of me, or whatever. And we've had to talk about that, so I don't freak out and just quit. That's all. I think I was trying to be more clear, but I'm not sure I succeeded! lol I love you! 
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#29
Oct 25, 2010, 02:19 PM
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how did things go, bpd?
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#30
Oct 25, 2010, 02:41 PM
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bpd I'm in the same boat as far as wanting to quit. I hope your appt went well.
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#31
Oct 25, 2010, 03:51 PM
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It went great! I had sent a few emails to her this weekend kind of telling her what was going on. We talked about it today and she agreed with most of it. I even got a few high fives on some of the stuff I had written! I tend to jump to not trusting her and wanting to quit everytime things get uncomfortable. Now that I know that, I can work on stopping it before it starts. Finally something good!! Thanks for asking. |
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#32
Oct 25, 2010, 04:07 PM
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AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!!! so so so happy for you!
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#33
Oct 25, 2010, 05:18 PM
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I'm happy to hear you had a good session!
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#34
Oct 25, 2010, 05:50 PM
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Great job !!!
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