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Nov 02, 2010, 04:15 PM
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I have been avoiding a traumatic event for a couple months now and finally acknowledged to T yesterday that it's something we need to talk about. I could *almost* hear him sigh in relief.
He said "whenever you are ready, I am here to listen and help you work through this." And he said it in that T "voice", and he had *that* T look of love and acceptance in his eyes. Then he told me I was one of the bravest people he has ever met. I feel so weak and needy so much of the time, I almost fell off the couch. He asked if I believed him, and I told him that I believed HE believed that, but it was hard for ME to believe that about myself. He is helping me to believe I can deal with this, just like all the other *crap* I have dealt with. So, next Monday it starts. Talking about what I don't want to talk about the most.
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#2
Nov 02, 2010, 04:49 PM
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(((jilliebeanmn)))
Yay! Sending you thoughts of support... You are indeed brave.  E
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Nov 02, 2010, 04:50 PM
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That's awesome!
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Nov 02, 2010, 05:13 PM
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That's great!!
 Yes, you ARE brave. 
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Nov 02, 2010, 05:46 PM
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((((((((((Jill))))))))))
That is AMAZING !!! It takes courage to share the truth in this way!!! Way to go!!! |
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Nov 02, 2010, 05:58 PM
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(((((((((((((Jill))))))))))))))
You ARE brave.  
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Nov 02, 2010, 06:23 PM
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congrats Jilly,,, t would not have said it if it weren't true! i think it is so cool when t's give affirmations, sometimes i can carry one with me for weeks!!!! congrats to you
  
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Nov 02, 2010, 09:58 PM
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Quote:
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"Be careful how you speak to your children. One day it will become their inner voice." - Peggy O'Mara Don't ever mistake MY SILENCE for ignorance, MY CALMNESS for acceptance, MY KINDNESS for weakness. - unknown |
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Nov 07, 2010, 11:54 AM
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Tomorrow is the day. I am having a hard time NOT thinking about what (and how) we are going to talk about this tomorrow. YIKES-freaking out a little.
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Nov 07, 2010, 12:27 PM
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I can imagine how freaked out you must feel right now.....ACK!! Maybe you can make some plans to pass the time so you don't get overly consumed by this?
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Don't follow the path that lies before you. Instead, veer from the path - and leave a trail...
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Nov 07, 2010, 12:37 PM
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Just know that you won't have to talk about anything you are not ready to talk about! I think your T won't push you, T sounds like a good one!
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#12
Nov 07, 2010, 08:32 PM
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Jilliebeanmn or was it yesterday, anyway...
 happy to meet you today and sendin' 'good thoughts' your way.Quote:
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Nov 08, 2010, 08:53 AM
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I know T won't push me into anything, and I am doing this on my timeline and my terms, but even thinking about talking about all this makes me want to flee. My anxiety is horrible right now thinking about this damn appointment this afternoon.
OMG, OMG, OMG............... Update-T called this morning to move my appointment to Tuesday afternoon instead of today. Not sure if I am relieved or not...
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Jill Last edited by jilliebeanmn; Nov 08, 2010 at 10:28 AM. |
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