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#26
Dec 22, 2010, 01:40 PM
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 - I don't like to share sometimes The books she lent me are to help in my therapy. One book is about mother daughter relationships and another is about a girl that was abused and how it effected her life as a teen and grown woman. She gave me those before a vacation break months ago. Are you considering finding another T?
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Dec 22, 2010, 01:46 PM
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I haven't received any cards from T and I haven't sent any either. As far as I know, my T doesn't celebrate the holidays. I wasn't sure how to handle the whole holiday thing - neither of us wished the other happy holidays.
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Dec 22, 2010, 01:48 PM
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I sent T cards for almost all occasions (except her birthday since I didn't know when it was), Mother's Day, Valentines Day, etc.
 But I don't know that I ever got anything in the mail from her. She did lend me some modeling clay once and I reciprocated with modeling "soap" to her for Christmas that year.http://www.spoonsisters.com/Merchant...uct_Code=45702
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Dec 22, 2010, 02:15 PM
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 Actually, I want her to adopt me, but I'd settle for her throw blanket for now.
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Dec 22, 2010, 03:11 PM
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That's it! I am taking my T's chair.
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Dec 22, 2010, 03:12 PM
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I gave my T a card. Didn't see it again. He loved the cookies once he got over getting them from me. LOL. He asked me if he should send out Christmas cards to all his clients. I told him why not? Such a goofy man he is. He also asked me to edit his web site and I did and he took my advice!!
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Dec 22, 2010, 04:11 PM
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Dec 22, 2010, 04:56 PM
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 She's a birth/parenting coach in addition to being a T, so it was natural for her to offer to be there. She would have been at the actual birth if I had asked her to, but that would have been too weird for me. 
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Dec 22, 2010, 06:42 PM
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Dec 22, 2010, 07:04 PM
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I just started seeing my psychologist last year & she was gone for November, December & most of January last year, so never gave her a card or anything. This year, I just haven't baked the cookies that I wanted to get made in time to give her any, so just gave her a card with some of my artwork on it. She sat my card on the top of her book case & commented at how creative I am. She has several other cards she received sitting there also & wanted to set my card so she could look at the artwork, but my name would have shown also, so she said that she would just look at the artwork when no one was in the office.
I made some gingerbread & sugar cookie horse head cut out cookies & decorated them with red halters & great looking mane & forelock. I gave one to my therapist for her little girl. That therapist comes to my farm between the times I see my psychologist in the office. Love being creative, but it also takes so much time....seems as though it's very appreciated though.
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Dec 22, 2010, 07:11 PM
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I have never asked my T for anything. Even when she offeres me something, I refuse it.
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#37
Dec 23, 2010, 12:42 AM
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Just sent my t an email with our christmas card/photo. Not sure i'll send her the letter.
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Dec 23, 2010, 02:45 PM
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Hope she receives it and responds. That reminds me I sent T an email one year with a Christmas photo of my daughter being very goofy with the Christmas lights. He liked it a lot and responded. So that worked a lot better than the one time I mailed a card and he never mentioned it--or perhaps he never received it. I think it is asking too much of my T to receive a card in the mail and remember to mention it several weeks later to the client who sent it. This is just the sort of task he does not excel at.
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Dec 23, 2010, 03:56 PM
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Dec 23, 2010, 05:45 PM
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We'll since I posted this thread..... I checked the mail and received a card from T
 . On the seal of the envelope was a little "A+ Job" sticker  
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"Be careful how you speak to your children. One day it will become their inner voice." - Peggy O'Mara Don't ever mistake MY SILENCE for ignorance, MY CALMNESS for acceptance, MY KINDNESS for weakness. - unknown Last edited by geez; Dec 23, 2010 at 07:14 PM. |
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