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Old May 02, 2011, 03:14 AM
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I'm really nervous about T tomorrow because I feel like the last session was so unproductive and wanted to quit so badly but didn't have the nerve to say anything, so I was quiet for most of the session. I'm up way later than I should be, it's 3am here right now and I see T at 8, and I can't sleep. It's frustrating and I'm afraid she's going to get sick of me because I don't talk much and can't open up. I'm thinking that I need to switch to seeing her at her other office about 30 miles away because it's more comfortable and the office I see her at right now is very uncomfortable because I can hear everything going on outside the office and get easily distracted by people talking in the reception area. But I'm not sure how to tell her and worry that she'll think I'm making a big deal out of nothing because she's told me that the people outside the door can't hear us, but I worry that they can.
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Old May 02, 2011, 06:16 AM
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Could you write down how you feel about the office and wanting to switch to the other one and show it to her? I think a lot of people (me included) would struggle to talk while they could hear other people just outside. It's hard enough to talk as it is! I hope you can let her know that you would like to switch to the other office - as long as she has times free to see you in at that office then I think the choice is really up to you. if ok
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Old May 02, 2011, 07:12 AM
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Hi - I find it so hard to talk to my T too - let us know how it went today.
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Old May 02, 2011, 07:38 AM
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Thinking of you now!!!
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Old May 02, 2011, 07:46 AM
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Hey,

I hope the session goes well. Try not to be hard on yourself for not talking as much as you would like, it can be very difficult. Perhaps the actually inablity to talk is something you need to ask her help in and see what way you could both work around it (maybe by writing or emailing before a session etc).
I think it's understandable to find the noise distracting, I know I would too.

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Old May 02, 2011, 10:27 AM
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Well it turned out to be a good session. We talked about a lot of different things, nothing too deep, but I was able to actually talk a little bit. At the end I brought up the issue with her office and asked if it would be okay for me to see her at her other office because I would feel more comfortable and she was definitely okay with it. So I'm glad she understood and hopefully seeing her in the other office will make me more comfortable, keeping all the outside distractions out.
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Old May 02, 2011, 10:44 AM
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way to go, talking and then having the courage to ask for what you want and then getting it!!!! your t sounds so cool!
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Old May 02, 2011, 10:55 AM
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I"m so glad it went better than you thought it would. And good for you for speaking up for yourself!
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Old May 02, 2011, 02:49 PM
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so awsome for going when it seemed so scary for you.i know it is so hard and i hope changing to the other office will be more comfortable for you.YAY for speaking up for what you need .kinda my idol for today
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Old May 02, 2011, 04:36 PM
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(((((((( Dani )))))))) happy for your good news. thank you for sharing it!!
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Old May 02, 2011, 04:39 PM
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glad it went well for you!
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