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Old May 03, 2011, 06:07 PM
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i know i have been going through a lot lately in therapy and it kind of sucks and i haven't been great on posting.or just getting people mad at me .but i am kind of feeling like everyone here hates me and i just want to say I'm sorry and to please don't hate me i wont be such a pain for long i hope and if i am please tell me instead of hate me i promise i wont get mad,i love all you guts here and i know even though i may never meet you all in person i need you all and PC in my life.you all mean so much to me.i know i can be kind of selfish and kind of stupid in my responses but i do care and hope i can get better at it someday when i know and understand as much as some here. it is probably just all the stuff i am going through in therapy and my life that is making me feel this way.i guess i just am being selfish and needing reassurance and wanted to let you all know how much help you ALL are and how much i need.especially these daysi'm sorry and sending you all big hugs
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Old May 03, 2011, 06:18 PM
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((((((((Granite))))))) I have NO idea what you are talking about because I have never even THOUGHT about being mad at you!! There have been a very few peeps on PC who crossed the line a few times and got under my skin, but you haven't even been on the list at ANY time - ever !!!! In fact, although I try to not have favorites, I do have some - and YOU ARE on that list !!!!

TONS and TONS and TONS of big hugs to you!
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Old May 03, 2011, 06:23 PM
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Granite - I have not seen any comment anywhere that even slightly suggests that anybody hates you or is upset with you. I think it's great the comments you make and how you reach out to help other people. Please continue on with what you've been doing. You are fine!!!!
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Old May 03, 2011, 06:26 PM
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i know i have been going through a lot lately in therapy and it kind of sucks and i haven't been great on posting.or just getting people mad at me .but i am kind of feeling like everyone here hates me and i just want to say I'm sorry and to please don't hate me i wont be such a pain for long i hope and if i am please tell me instead of hate me i promise i wont get mad,i love all you guts here and i know even though i may never meet you all in person i need you all and PC in my life.you all mean so much to me.i know i can be kind of selfish and kind of stupid in my responses but i do care and hope i can get better at it someday when i know and understand as much as some here. it is probably just all the stuff i am going through in therapy and my life that is making me feel this way.i guess i just am being selfish and needing reassurance and wanted to let you all know how much help you ALL are and how much i need.especially these daysi'm sorry and sending you all big hugs
No problems here. I am not great at giving advise at this point so I only post when I think I can be encouraging or something like that. I hope I can do more someday too. I am not mad at you or anybody. I am thankful I found everybody here.
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Old May 03, 2011, 06:31 PM
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(((((((((((((hugs Granite)))))))))))))))) I have a huge fear of people being mad at me too, that I'm trying to overcome. I understand. No problem here. We care. Its okay to be needy.
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Old May 03, 2011, 06:33 PM
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Old May 03, 2011, 06:44 PM
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((granite)) I have never been mad at you or disliked you one iota.

It's okay to come and go here. It's okay to be anywhere as much or as little as you want to be.
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Old May 03, 2011, 06:49 PM
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Hey Granite- no worries from me either! I love reading your stuff. Everyone goes through crappy patches- so hang in there and sooner or later life will make sense again!
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Old May 03, 2011, 07:01 PM
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hey ((((granite))))
you are great!!!!!
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Old May 03, 2011, 07:12 PM
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you guys are all so awsome THANKS
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Old May 03, 2011, 07:25 PM
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granite your just stressing out , you poor thing!

Dont worry obviously everybody loves you here.
Take good care.
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Old May 03, 2011, 07:31 PM
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I think you're just about one of the most sweet and timid people here. You have no need to worry Granite. Just keep being who myou are. (((granite)))
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Old May 03, 2011, 10:01 PM
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granite, you have nothing to feel sorry for. I see you as very compassionate, giving of yourself in all of your posts to others.
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Old May 04, 2011, 12:41 AM
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Granite, I can't for the life of me figure out why you think that we hate you. Far from it!! You are one of the sweetest people on PC. Always there to offer support and you came to find me when I disappeared. That means a lot to me. I for one don't hate you. That couldn't be further from the truth! Take care Sweetie! Love ya!
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Old May 04, 2011, 12:50 AM
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Hi Granite
I haven't been around much lately but I've never seen any reason for people to be angry at you. No worries...you have lots of friends here.
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Old May 04, 2011, 05:40 AM
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Granite?? We love you and wish you well always. If there is anything I said that hurt you (or if I got too busy and missed seeing something important), I didn't mean any harm & am so sorry. Please don't be hurt.
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Old May 04, 2011, 05:45 AM
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Granite?? We love you and wish you well always. If there is anything I said that hurt you (or if I got too busy and missed seeing something important), I didn't mean any harm & am so sorry. Please don't be hurt.
sitting i dont think you could ever do anythng to hurt me you are so sweet and amazing and so full of love NO WAY
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Old May 04, 2011, 05:46 AM
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you are so sweet and amazing and so full of love
but that is what YOU are, Granite, you have proved that over and over. Please I hope you find a more peaceful place very soon.
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Old May 04, 2011, 05:51 AM
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wow you guys are all so awsome THANK YOU SO MUCH i really needed to hear all this i keep reading it over and over again and it is so helpfull.i hope you all know how awsome this all made me feel.i know the insecurities i am feeling is my own stuff and it can be so hard to deal with and you all help me so much THANKS
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Old May 04, 2011, 07:52 AM
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((((((((((((granite))))))))))))))))

I don't think ANYONE is angry at you....I know I'm not
Love and hugs to you!
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Old May 04, 2011, 08:04 AM
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((((((((granite))))))))) I have certainly never been peeved with you or your posts! You have always been so compassionate in reaching out to me and commenting on my threads and I appreciate it so much. I appreciate your kindness and care so much! I value you and your posts a LOT!
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Old May 04, 2011, 12:21 PM
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You are one of my absolute favs here granite! I care about you A LOT and I would never hate you!
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Old May 04, 2011, 05:22 PM
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(((((((((((((((((Granite)))))))))))))))))))))))

I have never been angry at you in any way. Please be gentle with yourself. You are a wonderful person.
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Old May 04, 2011, 06:01 PM
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Aw granite, I have never seen a post by you that I thought was mean or upsetting, I think you always come across as kind and caring!

If you want to talk about the things going on for you, we are here to listen and help in any way we can!

huge hugs....you are loved, special...unique!!!
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Old May 04, 2011, 06:43 PM
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WOW i just want to thank all you guys for all thei hope some day you will all give me the chance to return it to each and everyone of you

i am doing much better now.i think i was just feeling so crappy i was convinced everyone in my life hated me.maybe a bit of PC transferance

hugs and thank you all
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