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Old May 16, 2011, 06:35 AM
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I just couldn't do it, make myself go to T, that is. After I cancelled my ride I had this moment of panic, thinking I did the wrong thing, but then i remembered: there is no right or wrong here. It can be what I make it. It's all just more opportunity for growth.

Once I remembered that I immediately felt calm. I'll be okay.

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Old May 16, 2011, 06:58 AM
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It's ok Zoo. What do you have planned for the day today?
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Old May 16, 2011, 07:14 AM
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((((zoo)))) I am glad you feel calm about it......
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Old May 16, 2011, 07:32 AM
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(((((((((Zoo))))))))))

It is totally understandable and totally okay for you to cancel your appointment. I think it's good for us to push ourselves and I think it's good for us to recognize when we just need to step back and let ourselves rest and breathe for a minute.

Please post and let us know how you're doing today. I'll be thinking about you
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Old May 16, 2011, 07:32 AM
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After I get the kids off to school I'll go for my walk and then come home. In the midst of all this emotional mess I have completely ignored my classes, so I'm giving myself a goal of at least looking at each class and figuring out how to get caught up. Other than that my plans are pretty much my usual: housework, internet, reading, more housework, listening to music, knitting, trying not to think about if t will call and, if she does, if I will answer and, if I do, what I will say.
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Old May 16, 2011, 08:28 AM
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((((( zoo )))))

You're in such a hard place, and you're handling it amazingly well. You will be ok. You ARE ok....((( HUGS )))
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Old May 16, 2011, 09:14 AM
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Zoo-I hope you have a peaceful day.
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Old May 16, 2011, 10:20 AM
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I hope I have a peaceful day, too. Not going to t today means I'm prolonging this feeling of being in limbo, which I hate, but it's also protecting myself from more pain, for today anyway. I hope.

PS I sent t a text just saying I won't be there. I'm starting to wonder if she even exists, so complete has the silence from her been.
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Old May 16, 2011, 10:50 AM
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((((((((((((Zoo))))))))))))

I'm glad that you were able to make a decision. I'm glad that you have plans for today to take care of yourself.
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Old May 16, 2011, 11:12 AM
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((((((((((zoo)))))))))))))) I hope you have a great day today. Remember there is no right or wrong at this point.
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Old May 16, 2011, 11:19 AM
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(((Zoo))) You're still reaching out to her......... hopefully she'll reach back. I'm glad you have plans for the day. What are you studying in school Zoo??
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