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Old Jun 06, 2011, 04:10 PM
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I just left my session and let me tell you how grateful I am for the therapist that I have. She is such a blessing to my life. She always hugs me when I come in and when I leave, and she is an amazing hugger. She feels like mom to me; very nurturing and caring. I told her last Thursday that I was ready to share more memories of my abuse with her and that I would share some with her today. In today's session I could tell she was ready to listen and to support me. I'm crying just thinking about it. She was so loving and so gentle with me, as always, and I'm so thankful that I have her. She made me feel like I mattered and what I was saying to her mattered. It was one of the most difficult sessions as in me telling her about my abuse, but it was also one of the most loving sessions I've had with her, as well.

My birthday is tomorrow and after my session she said she had a birthday present for me. I was amazed that she thought about me, because she didn't have to do that. She sat next to me as I opened it, and I started crying so hard. It was beautiful and she did what I imagined and have hoped for in my mind for months. My T grabbed me up in her arms as I cried, and she said some really sweet things, but for the life of me I can't remember what they were.

I was just so thrilled and over the moon that she was loving me up like she was and that was all I could focus on. I just remember that they were words that touched me, a lot. I said thank you to her and that my gift was perfect. I told her, "This makes me so happy." She had her hand on my back and said, "I'm glad. You deserve to be happy."

I don't share much, but I did want to share my happy T story in the hopes that someone who needs to hear something positive about therapy will be encouraged in their own T relationships and in their therapy journey that there really are amazing therapists out there.
Thanks for this!
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 04:12 PM
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Thanks for sharing peridot. Glad you have a good session. It's good to hear good news.
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 04:13 PM
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I love your story. Thanks for sharing. It makes me feel happy at the moment. And it proves that there are good therapists in the world. It should give hope to those who are looking for one.
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 04:30 PM
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Thanks for sharing peridot. Glad you have a good session. It's good to hear good news.
You're so welcome, and thanks for letting me share.

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I love your story. Thanks for sharing. It makes me feel happy at the moment. And it proves that there are good therapists in the world. It should give hope to those who are looking for one.
Suratji, thank you. I'm so glad it makes you happy. I definitley won the therapist lottery when it comes to her.
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 04:34 PM
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I am so glad you are happy today. She sounds like a wonderful T. Happy Birthday!!!
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 04:39 PM
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She sounds so sweet. I hope there are many more happy sessions to come for you and your T.
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 04:48 PM
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Peridot, you're story sent a shot of warmth through my whole body and made me truly smile for the first time in quite a while. Thank you for sharing.
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 05:35 PM
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Awwwww!!! That is awesome


Happy Birthday!
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 07:23 PM
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Awesome! thanks so much for sharing that!
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 08:07 PM
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I am so glad you are happy today. She sounds like a wonderful T. Happy Birthday!!!
Thank you, nannypat, for the birthday wishes. I'm really happy. I can't stop thinking about my time with her today.
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 08:14 PM
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She sounds so sweet. I hope there are many more happy sessions to come for you and your T.
siljie, she is such a sweetheart. Thank you for the more-happy-session wishes for us. I really appreciate it.
Thanks for this!
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 08:19 PM
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Peridot, you're story sent a shot of warmth through my whole body and made me truly smile for the first time in quite a while. Thank you for sharing.
((((TryinToGetBy))))), your post really touched my heart. I'm so happy I could share something that made you smile. I'm all teary, now.
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 08:23 PM
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Awwwww!!! That is awesome


Happy Birthday!
Thank you, treehouse! :-)
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 08:25 PM
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Awesome! thanks so much for sharing that!
You're so welcome, rainbow_rose. Thank you, too.
Thanks for this!
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 09:41 PM
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T was so sweet to remember your birthday!
"Happy Birthday"

and thanks for sharing an amazing session.
you were very brave to share part of your story with t

sending safe hugs
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Old Jun 06, 2011, 11:06 PM
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That is wonderful! What did she give you? HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
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Old Jun 07, 2011, 01:34 PM
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beautiful story!
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Old Jun 07, 2011, 08:51 PM
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T was so sweet to remember your birthday!
"Happy Birthday"

and thanks for sharing an amazing session.
you were very brave to share part of your story with t

sending safe hugs
Thank you, jbmomg! Thank you for saying I was brave. It's very encouraging to hear that.
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Old Jun 07, 2011, 08:54 PM
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That is wonderful! What did she give you? HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
Thank you, friend! She gave me a wall hanging of a lighthouse with a scripture on it that says God has called me out of darkness and into His marvelous light. I have it hanging on the wall above my desk. I love it!
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Old Jun 07, 2011, 08:59 PM
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beautiful story!
Thank you, poetgirl! I'm so thankful that she sits with me week after week, twice a week, and guides me through all my pain to healing. I have never felt more hopeful in my life than I feel now.
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Old Jun 07, 2011, 09:11 PM
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Thank you, friend! She gave me a wall hanging of a lighthouse with a scripture on it that says God has called me out of darkness and into His marvelous light. I have it hanging on the wall above my desk. I love it!
Awe, that's beautiful. Your T obviously cares about you very much!
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Old Jun 07, 2011, 11:02 PM
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That's so wonderful. Its really good to hear that you have a good T, and that you're trusting her enough to talk to her about the tough stuff. And how wonderfully sweet of her to give you a birthday present and help your day be special!!! Thanks for sharing your story!
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