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Old Jul 20, 2011, 08:56 PM
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My T is away. I was doing "fine fine fine" but now I miss her. She won't be back 'till week after next.
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Old Jul 20, 2011, 09:08 PM
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It's hard, isn't it? My T was away last week and is away this week. I see her next Monday. I have a picture of her and think of her at times. Hang in there!
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Old Jul 20, 2011, 09:21 PM
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aww that sucks...I'm gladed you doing fine!!! It always good to realize you'll be okay even if your T is gone for alittle bit.
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Old Jul 21, 2011, 08:15 AM
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Elana5,

Mine is gone on vacation too -- so we're in this boat together! Like you, when my t goes away, at first i feel fine, for maybe a week or so. . .but then my strong resolve starts to give way. . .and i begin missing her alot. What helps me best is reminding myself of times when she has said and done things that show she cares -- reliving them in my mind -- so that i can hang onto a sense of our relationship being real and continuing, even when we are not physically together. The other thing that helps me when my t is gone is keeping myself very busy so i don't dwell on the fact that she is gone. Maybe you could try those things and see if it helps at all. . .I understand though. . .it's hard. But before you know it, she'll be back.
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