[suzzie]

has your t ever asked you for available days to reschedule a session. and then not answered your reply email. could they have suddenly took time off. mine asked on friday nite. but because it was late i didnt reply until yesterday morning. she doesnt answer email on the weekend. but she still hasnt replied. and she wanted to reschedule for this week. she even said she wasnt going to charge for it as a compasation. and that my care was important to her. but then why hasnt she answered. and why did she want to make the appointment this week if it wasnt possible. i dont understand why she didnt email to even say something came up and shed get back to me. am i just bothered by something that is really nothing. should i be ok with waiting how ever long it takes. the session that was cancelled was supposed to be a bumped up appointment. because the original appointment was too far off. now im waiting even longer. if this is just part of the process i really dont like it.

[Perna]

No way to know what came up for her yesterday or this morning that she didn't get to your email? When was the session scheduled for and are you sure it was "cancelled" if it hasn't been rescheduled? I would reply again and mark it urgent or say you are afraid she may not have gotten your Friday night one, etc. Did you send it from an email address you know her email carrier will honor (rather than just an online address like hotmail that some paid email accounts have trouble with?)

I hope you hear something, soon!

[suzzie]

it was definitely cancelled. i showed up and there was a note on the door to call her. her daughter had a baby that morning. she said shed email me later about rescheduling. that was friday afternoon. and she did email friday nite to ask what days i had this week. but by then it was 9 at nite. so i waited till monday morning to reply. i did reply a second time and still no answer. so its not rescheduled yet. she needed to pick one of the days i gave her. and then i would confirm back. but that didnt happen yet. i sent them from two different computers to be sure of that. one was mine that i always use. i just dont understand why it is going like this.

[Perna]

Do you have a phone number for her? I would call and leave a message if you can. Sounds like she's not getting to her computer/email what with the new grandchild. Not very professional but I can understand why it might happen I guess. Good luck!

[Wren_]

I hope you hear back soon; from what you've said it sounds more like something came up with her daughter or grandchild and she hasn't been able to get back to you yet .... although I have had emails go astray before as well, so could be a number of things. I know it's hard though

[unaluna]

Well, maybe under NORMAL circumstances she doesn't answer mail on the weekends, but maybe this weekend she was doing so, because of the schedule upheaval? My T would say you were trying to predict the future, and that doesn't work. The "process" at work here might be, don't make your T wait for a response from you?
Other of her clients may have responded to their emails sooner, and she will call or email now when she is sure she has an opening, maybe? There can be baby or daughter health things happening now, who knows.

I would say for sure that she is NOT playing games with you, she is just up to her earballs in trying to manage everything right now. She said she cares about you and is offering a free session, so she is aware she is messing this up. Maybe she should have planned more time off or a replacement, maybe other people didn't show up to help with the baby who were supposed to - again, who knows.

It IS affecting you, but it's nothing you did, not about you, but perhaps a bit of a mistake on her part.

Hope this helps? Maybe someone else can offer more insight, I'm like Prissy in Gone With The Wind, I don't know nuthin' 'bout birthin' babies!