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Nov 22, 2011, 02:28 AM
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Wow, its been over a month now, and I really miss my ex T..... I miss our every other Tuesday sessions... I really miss his voice and his hugs after our sessions....I miss everything about him....My heart is truly broken..... I know that I had to end our patient/therapist relationship as I could not move past the whole "transference" issue with him, but why does it hurt so bad? Will this pain ever end??? I will always have a special place in my heart for him.....
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Nov 22, 2011, 04:40 AM
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How long does it take to get over a divorce or the death of a child? Longer than a month, I would guess. When you have grieved sufficiently, the pain will ease.
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Nov 22, 2011, 04:55 AM
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Thank you so much for your reply CantExplain..... Yeah I guess a month really isnt much time.....I thought since I no longer see him ( out of sight, out of mind) type deal....that my feelings would just go away.....I guess I just have to give it more time....
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Nov 22, 2011, 05:17 AM
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Thank you so much for your reply CantExplain..... Yeah I guess a month really isnt much time.....I thought since I no longer see him ( out of sight, out of mind) type deal....that my feelings would just go away.....I guess I just have to give it more time....
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Nov 22, 2011, 09:11 AM
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mommyof2girls I stopped seeing my T of 3 1/2 years Sept 1st. I too miss my old T but it does slowly get better with time. It doesn't feel that way all the time. There are many times I do still think about her when I'm facing a problem in life etc.. and I think of the comfort I felt when I was in her presence. It takes lots of time to get over that missing piece of my life. On the upside I'm stronger now than I ever was.
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