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#1
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I don't even know why I go to therapy anymore. It seems so hopeless. Life just is ICK and I hate myself. That doesn't seem to change ever. I don't know how to change how I feel about myself. So what is the point?
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I have no advice I just wanted to offer up ((hugs)). Don't give up!!!
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"You decide every moment of every day who you are and what you believe in. You get a second chance, every second." "You fail to recognize that it matters not what someone is born, but what they grow to be!" - J.K. Rowling. Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire. |
#3
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It takes time. Think how many years our parents/"care" givers had with us to give us harmful, damaging messages. It's going to take a fair amount of time and repetition of GOOD messages to overcome that. [At least that is what my T keeps saying to me.]
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Mr Ambassador, alias Ancient Plax, alias Captain Therapy, alias Big Poppa, alias Secret Spy, etc. Add that to your tattoo, Baby! |
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How are you feeling today?
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#6
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I got better by first identifying the problems that I wanted to work on. Once identified, being aware, aware, aware of everything about it. When the issue would come up, who was involved, how did I feel, etc. Talk about it with T so that it can be explored, explored, explored. T's give good feedback on problems. Getting all of your buried feelings about it out. Once I did all of this the solving was almost done. Making these subconscious issues conscious just about solves the problem.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
#7
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I just don't know what to do. I don't know what I am doing. I know it sounds weird, but I don't know what I am doing.
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Maybe this is part of the process? This feeling of confusion, being lost, not knowing what we're doing? Or maybe it's something to bring up with T..."I don't know what I'm doing". I may say that tomorrow myself. I bet it's okay to not know sometimes. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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#9
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I have therapy tomorrow too. I'll be hoping we can figure this out.
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#10
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I'm with you in ickville right now. I don't know how therapy is going to help right now.
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I'm sorry growlycat.
I really like your name, by the way. ![]() |
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