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Old Feb 01, 2012, 11:22 AM
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I don't even know why I go to therapy anymore. It seems so hopeless. Life just is ICK and I hate myself. That doesn't seem to change ever. I don't know how to change how I feel about myself. So what is the point?
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Old Feb 01, 2012, 11:23 AM
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I have no advice I just wanted to offer up ((hugs)). Don't give up!!!
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Old Feb 01, 2012, 11:50 AM
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It takes time. Think how many years our parents/"care" givers had with us to give us harmful, damaging messages. It's going to take a fair amount of time and repetition of GOOD messages to overcome that. [At least that is what my T keeps saying to me.]
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Old Feb 01, 2012, 05:56 PM
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I don't even know why I go to therapy anymore. It seems so hopeless. Life just is ICK and I hate myself. That doesn't seem to change ever. I don't know how to change how I feel about myself. So what is the point?
I'm sorry to hear this. I also see you are lonely. It sounds painful. Not a nice place to be.

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Old Feb 02, 2012, 12:35 PM
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Old Feb 02, 2012, 03:31 PM
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Life just is ICK and I hate myself. I don't know how to change how I feel about myself.
I got better by first identifying the problems that I wanted to work on. Once identified, being aware, aware, aware of everything about it. When the issue would come up, who was involved, how did I feel, etc. Talk about it with T so that it can be explored, explored, explored. T's give good feedback on problems. Getting all of your buried feelings about it out. Once I did all of this the solving was almost done. Making these subconscious issues conscious just about solves the problem.
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Old Feb 02, 2012, 09:22 PM
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I just don't know what to do. I don't know what I am doing. I know it sounds weird, but I don't know what I am doing.
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Old Feb 02, 2012, 09:29 PM
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I just don't know what to do. I don't know what I am doing. I know it sounds weird, but I don't know what I am doing.
Wow, I can REALLY relate to this right now! I have session tomorrow, and I feel like I've just been spinning my wheels lately, both in and out of session. I got triggered by a few things and then my Mom was in the hospital and I'm just LOST. I feel like I have no direction or path or plan...I just keep going to therapy and crying and being sad and I feel like I'm not GETTING anywhere.

Maybe this is part of the process? This feeling of confusion, being lost, not knowing what we're doing?

Or maybe it's something to bring up with T..."I don't know what I'm doing". I may say that tomorrow myself.

I bet it's okay to not know sometimes.
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Old Feb 03, 2012, 12:07 AM
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I have therapy tomorrow too. I'll be hoping we can figure this out.
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Old Feb 03, 2012, 12:12 AM
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I have therapy tomorrow too. I'll be hoping we can figure this out.
I'm with you in ickville right now. I don't know how therapy is going to help right now.
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Old Feb 03, 2012, 04:02 PM
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I'm sorry growlycat.

I really like your name, by the way.
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