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#1
Apr 07, 2012, 02:13 PM
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has anyone ever had to work through their feelings for their therapist with a different therapist?... to help repair a rupture so the working relationship can heal and continue to work?
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Apr 07, 2012, 03:27 PM
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I did, and it worked out. do you have a pdoc you can talk to that you already see, or a previous T? the main questions were not, is T imperfect, was the rupture horrible, will I always remember this betrayal (or whatever)? it's all yes. the question is, can you still work with T, can T still help you?
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Apr 07, 2012, 03:45 PM
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My most recent rupture was repaired by us going together to a second T.
If you think your relationship is worth saving and are willing to work on it, I'd say your chances are excellent.
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Apr 07, 2012, 03:51 PM
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thank you.
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~
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Apr 08, 2012, 08:46 PM
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i haven't ............ but maybe it would be worth you trying if it might help and you do want to continue working with current T
 it's good to see you
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Apr 08, 2012, 10:34 PM
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Sending so many hugs!
My T and I had a really, really bad and drawn out rupture over the course of like 3 months. We had to do a LOT of work together and it was one of the worst time for both of us. But we did it and Im so glad we did. |
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Apr 08, 2012, 10:44 PM
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I have done so. I specifically went for awhile to figure out how to handle being mocked byt the first therapist. I could have just stayed with the new one, but for some reason I keep going back to the first one. It seemed to help and the second one is much better and willing to explain to me things about therapy itself. I still go to the second one from time to time. It helped me.
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#8
Apr 09, 2012, 08:14 PM
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Thank u every-1 4 ur responses. I really so appreciate it!!
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 )I sent her an email about how I was feeling and got a nice reply which helps. I've lost that safe feeling with her and I want it back.hopefully I won't need an outside person to do that. We shall see...
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~
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Apr 09, 2012, 09:38 PM
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I hope you can work it out with your current T whether you have to see someone else or not. I have a feeling that you can repair the rupture with your T since you shared how you felt and she replied to you. Good luck!
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Apr 10, 2012, 05:49 PM
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I would feel like I had really slipped down a rabbit hole if I was seeing a therapist to deal with my relationship with a therapist. but that's just me.
I am not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, but I wonder about this strategy. I agree with R-9. I have a feeling that you can repair the problem given that you shared exactly what your issues are....I would always suggest going that route, rather than creating a triangular relationship, which I feel can be problematic. Just my two cents! |
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Apr 12, 2012, 12:05 AM
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I feel that all human relationships are problematic.
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