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#1
May 14, 2012, 07:49 PM
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...because it taught me that hate doesn't have to last for ever.
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May 14, 2012, 08:09 PM
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is this the same T you have now? ... if so, did the reasons you hated her change or what changed there?
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May 14, 2012, 08:12 PM
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I hated her because I wanted to break through the boundaries and she wouldn't let me. But even more, I hated her because I was transfering the hate I felt for my mother.
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May 14, 2012, 08:40 PM
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and now?
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May 14, 2012, 08:52 PM
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I don't hate her any more.
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May 14, 2012, 08:53 PM
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I never hated T, but we've certainly worked through some really painful feelings. And as much as it hurt, I see the good in it too...I'm learning that the foundation of love and trust can stay the same no matter what is going on, and that with that foundation, there's always a way back to connection.
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May 14, 2012, 09:22 PM
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I have the love, strongly dislike thing going on all of the time. Stresses me out. I have very rigid boundaries that seem to be a problem. Gotta learn to open up some.
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May 14, 2012, 10:26 PM
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No it doesn't last forever. It just transfers onto the next person.
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May 15, 2012, 02:43 AM
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