[TinaL]

I have been in contact with my biological brother three times in the past 8 yrs when we reunited. He and I were both adopted out to diff parents.

It has never worked out because we both have emotional issues. It's not his fault but, I can't do this anymore.

Just last month we connected on Fb. We talked by phone once and He will never respond to my messages.
He tells me he will call and never does. ( This is typical of him)

So, I get this txt message off of Yahoo messenger and it supposedly by his wife saying he is sick and needs surgery and don't tell ( my brother) she told me or he would be mad.

One, I deleted him off FB.
Two, I know how he writes ( sentence structure) and that was a message from him.
Three, I am so done. I don't see this ever going anywhere. I can't do this anymore, ever with him.
Maybe I am to fast to judge, but I think I need my sanity and he drains it.

[unaluna]

I get you, I don't know what they're thinking either. My longtime T, for like 15 years, told me when my dad died, that if you've already grieved the r/s in therapy, then their actual death might not hit you that hard. And she said I had been working on my family r/s for a long time, so... You might be in the same position now. You haven't been waiting for zero-hour to arrive to think about these things. We've been here all our lives.

[TinaL]

When i told my T about this. he said it would be interesting to see the similarities since we both are related, but have had totally different parents and upbringing. I can tell you that one similar thing is we both have been disturbed emotionally on how our real mother abandoned us. I think that is why we are unable to be even friends.

[TinaL]

My brother messaged me a hateful letter. Nothing new... I guess this post is going no where. Thanks to those who posted. How can I delete this post?

[unaluna]

contact the mod by hitting the button at the bottom to report the thread. sorry about what's happening.