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Old May 24, 2012, 02:57 PM
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Like the Atlantic Ocean.
That is exactly the same joke my T made, CE.

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Old May 24, 2012, 03:01 PM
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We built a fire in the fire pit and cooked over the grill on the fire. We hung out and talked. Then I took a hot bath by candlelight.
This sounds surprisingly lovely given the awful stressful circumstances which precipitated it Hope today was more normal for you
Thanks for this!
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Old May 24, 2012, 03:22 PM
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How awful Mkac,-I didn't realize that your mother lives next door! Considering that proximity and the description of your mother, I don't know how you hold it together. You definitely know how to make the best out of a bad situation. The fire pit dinner sounds great!
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Old May 25, 2012, 12:35 PM
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An emotional boundary would work too.
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Old May 25, 2012, 05:06 PM
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I would have DOUBLE thanked you for this message, hankster, if I could have. Made me laugh.



So your mother thinks everything on the planet is your fault also? I'm so sorry.

Our electricity was not turned back on until 10:45 last night. My son spent the evening with his girlfriend's family because they always have power and food. And they are nicer than us. Double He said he was joking around, but I wasn't up to much joking last night. My daughter was totally cool. We built a fire in the fire pit and cooked over the grill on the fire. We hung out and talked. Then I took a hot bath by candlelight (luckily our hot water heater runs on propane).

Thanks for all of the support here. And thanks for not asking me why I posted. Sometimes I want to kick my therapist in the shins.
You made something salvagable out of a sucky day. Good for you!
Only the shins?? Go for the gold!
Yes my mother blames me for Vietnam.
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Old May 25, 2012, 09:22 PM
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An emotional boundary would work too.
No offense, but clearly you have not met my mother.
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Old May 25, 2012, 09:24 PM
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Trying to somehow mentally prepare to see the extended family at the funeral tomorrow. It's so overwhelming, knowing that my mother and sister have been spreading lies and telling everyone what an awful person I am. Just feeling so sick and sad and exhausted.
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Old May 25, 2012, 09:26 PM
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I'm sorry;I know that feeling too well.
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Old May 27, 2012, 11:32 AM
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No offense, but clearly you have not met my mother.
If you want this to get better it needs to be done, and it CAN be done.
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Old May 27, 2012, 03:41 PM
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Some people don't respect boundaries.
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