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#1
Jun 09, 2012, 11:11 PM
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I don't know how to even phrase this question.
I just don't want to call a new T and ask a question and be embarrassed and feel like a ****ing idiot. I'm completely confused as far as who to talk to regarding sexuality. I don't know if that's the right word for what I mean. I'm straight, but I have topics regarding sex that I feel I need to discuss. My desires, why I function a certain way (no not anatomy), how my feelings relate to sex, etc. I normally have a high sex drive, but I'm bi-polar so it varies even more and can be REALLY HIGH at times, and thus I feel I need help in understanding myself in general. Am I making sense? What are your thoughts? |
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#2
Jun 09, 2012, 11:27 PM
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I would think a question about sex would best to be brought up in an actual session instead of over the phone. As for talking about sex, you can talk about anything, really. The only real boundaries are if it's aimed at the T it can't cross the line of being sexual harrassment (inappropriate) or of course any sort of abuse of others. I'm pretty laid back, other T's that practice from a particular religous back ground may not be as open.
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#3
Jun 09, 2012, 11:31 PM
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Hey Roaming you are a guy right? Not that it should matter for my response...just wanted a frame of reference.
My H has a porn addiction so I know he talks about that with his T and all that that entails but they concentrate on the feelings he has that drives him to resort to that.. I've talked to my T about a problem that I was/am having with some PTSD triggers during sex with my H....so there was that... Now I have 2 issues that I wish I could talk about... the one which is more physical in nature I decided to start with my gyno...if she thinks its "all in my head" then maybe I'll talk to T... The other issues has to relate to my fantasy's which bother me but yeah...not ready to discuss that with anyone right yet? Is that any help? |
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#4
Jun 10, 2012, 01:28 AM
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Talking, anything goes.
One of our scenarios was a rape. In another, she was the man and I was the woman. But whatever you say, T will want more details, and that can be even more embarrassing that what you started with!
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#5
Jun 10, 2012, 06:23 AM
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I would say for me anything goes.....Although it was easier to talk about sex with my ex t then my current one.....
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#6
Jun 10, 2012, 07:19 AM
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I feel better that I'm getting a frame of reference from everyone else. Thank you! I'll just need to make sure I'm comfortable discussing this with my next T. So many choices, so hard to choose. |
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#7
Jun 10, 2012, 07:51 AM
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They should be equipped to talk about anything sexual with you that is not illegal. Generally they won't discuss their sexual stuff with you. If it is too far outside their comfort zone, they should refer you to someone else.
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