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Old Jun 15, 2012, 05:40 PM
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Today was my last session with T. I want to come back to write about it later when I have time. It's been a hard day, but okay too, in a weird way.

I guess I could use hugs.
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 05:48 PM
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Here for you, nightsky!
I know how hard it is.. I hope it was a good (bittersweet) ending.
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 06:07 PM
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 06:17 PM
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I'm sorry ((((Nightsky))))
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 06:24 PM
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I guess you could! x a million

Are you talking about a break while you see the other T?
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 06:39 PM
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Sometimes we just have to move on . . . but that can feel really like a significant loss. You know we all hope the best for you. Lots of love . . .
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 06:52 PM
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safe, loving, long hug, nightsky. you are all wrapped up in my heart right now. I do know the pain/grief.
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 06:53 PM
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Lots of hugs to you Nightsky. I hope the ending was what you wanted and needed.
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 06:54 PM
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 07:03 PM
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nightsky, I'm so sorry that it ended this way. I don't understand why, but I know how hurt you've been. I still believe your T loves you. What you two had was beautiful and will be there in your hearts, always, no matter what happened to cause this ending.

I hope you are going to see the other T and that he or she helps you sort out all of your feelings about your T and what happened.
Thanks for this!
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 07:05 PM
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through great effort and willpower,
but is already present,
in open relaxation and letting go.

Don't strain yourself,
there is nothing to do or undo.
Whatever momentarily arises
in the body-mind
Has no real importance at all,
has little reality whatsoever.

Don't believe in the reality
of good and bad experiences;
they are today's ephemeral weather,
like rainbows in the sky.


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Old Jun 15, 2012, 07:11 PM
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really really sorry and feel for ya. (((nightsky)))
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 08:25 PM
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(((((((((((NightSky))))))))))))))

I'm so sorry your relationship with T ended this way. We are all here for you for whatever you need.
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 08:31 PM
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Nightsky I am so sorry. I was hoping the new t would be able to meet with the two of you and work things out.
Thanks for this!
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Old Jun 15, 2012, 08:31 PM
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My heart is breaking for you. You've worked so hard and been so brave. But perhaps ending it was the bravest thing of all?

I hope you can find some peace around this soon. Till then, there are so many of us thinking of you and wishing you well.
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Old Jun 16, 2012, 12:11 AM
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(((( HUGS ))))
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Old Jun 18, 2012, 01:38 PM
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(((nightsky))) I am sorry this is ending this way for you. You are the best person to know what is best for you though. I do sense that the grief and loss will be also felt by that T on a deep level. Thinking of you.
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