Have you ever crossed your t's boundaries?

(Sorry to keep posting about the same story.)

Interestingly enough. After I had quit seeing her. She sent me a piece of mail, asking to evaluate her performance. What a joke!

Seriously, she is insane. I hope you wrote that on her evaluation and sent it back. She must have known damn well how badly she treated you, why else would she send you that? I mean she can't possibly think that is okay to treat clients like that.

Evaluation? 2 words: "Nice balls!" Unbelievable!

I've said some things that after the fact I thought oops maybe I shouldn't of said that but she's never called me out on anything boundary-wise. She encourages me to be real and not hold anything back. I threw my pen across the room in frustration one time. Was surprised I did not get a reaction from even that. She's so calm cool and collected all the darn time. <--- that's my t!

I tossed it out. It came aside a bill from her, for the skipped appointment after that one. I hadn't contacted her to tell her I had quit yet, I didn't really want to talk to her. But the $70ish bill was nice... Honestly I would take a $70 bill over spending more time with her.

So I have been doing internet counselling but I am still worried about sending emails lol! Because my last t didn't like texts or emails but my new t is great, maybe because he gets paid for every email! I sent him one the other day, apologising about sending two in one week because I am having hard time this week and if said, never apologise for your feelings and I am so glad you emailed me. I was so happy because he is so different to last t, who was always emotionally detached and unavailable:-)