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I have been having lots of nightmares lately. I just mentioned jokingly maybe I needed a dreamcatcher to keep away nightmares.
She has a few of them in her office. I never dreamed that she would give me one. She offered I said no, but then at end of session she gave it to me. I took it, but feel guilty for taking it, not sure why. She seemed happy to give it to me, but still feel guilty because I think another client probably deserves it more than I do . Sheesh....why can't I just accept it and be done with it..... ![]() |
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So - hang onto that dream catcher - and although it may make you cringe for a while - let it yell at you "Hey! You matter to me! I want you to take my care with you - to go to sleep feeling it - to wake up knowing it's there."
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Treasure it. It's nice to give AND receive.
My therapist gave me some incontinent pads today*. I don't need them, but I did need the gesture behind them. Maybe your therapist sensed you were in a similar situation. *If someone ever creates a "surreal moments in therapy" thread, I'll share the story. |
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I told her about a bathroom accident I had at work last week. When I started crying about it, she abruptly left the room. A couple of seconds later she came back with the pads.
I don't know why she gave them to me. I don't have incontinent issues. It was just a one-time thing. But I took them anyway because it didn't matter. She was trying to make me feel better ("It happens to us all!"). So I let her make me feel better. I guess it wasn't such a surreal moment after all. Last edited by autotelica; Aug 13, 2012 at 07:40 PM. |
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It sounds caring though; just as canuck receiving the dreamcatcher does
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I'm jealous, but in a good way...how sweet.
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ohh how special-I love this <3 I also understand the difficulty in accepting it-but I hope that you can ease into the ability to cherish this gift-it's neat ; )
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There is no "Dreamcatcher Worthiness List"!! Just accept and enjoy
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Definitely just enjoy it.. That was very sweet of your t.
My t gives me presents sometimes and it just makes us so happy. |
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I understand what you mean, I would have a difficult time accepting it as well. I think it's very special though, and you deserve it.
Auto... that is sweet as well. A lot of women do use them.
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I love dream catchers - so glad you have such a caring T who supports you so much!
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