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Elder Harridan x-hankster
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granite, you're a superhero
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underdog is here
Member Since Sep 2011
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It sounds like you were quite brave today and some internal backlash is not abnormal. It isn't particularly fun to go through, but it is not unusual. The therapist can handle what you tell her.
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What you are feeling is normal. You've kept your past hidden from everyone but now you've trusted your T enough to let her see a little bit. You don't have to open the door all the way at once. You're right that you can't go backwards but you can go slowly. Your T doesn't think YOU are horrible. She thinks what was done TO YOU was horrible. You can trust her to help you heal. I know you're scared but you're going to be all right. Try not to think TOO much about it during the next 2 weeks. This might be a good time for distraction. Remember your T is on your side. Her only goal is to help you feel better.
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