[~EnlightenMe~]

[Screenager]

Nice gesture, but I don't think that's fair. There are many people in need of support here, and if everyone got their own thread there would be chaos here.

There's a "Kudos & Affirmations" forum here as well, maybe you'd like to use that.

[Miswimmy1]

@antimatter: that is too sweet of u thank you, I appreciate it.

@screenager: u have a good point. Maybe instead we could use this as a place to recognize everyone who has given support or advice. PC has helped me so much, but it's a two way street. We are all here to give and get support.

[~EnlightenMe~]

I've emailed moderators, am trying to change this. SORRY.

[adel34]

I personally think it's cool that you wanted to make a support thread for Swimmy. I think she really deserves it right now. Other threads have turned into support threads for certain people, even if it's not in the title. And I think if everyone had their own thread where truly positive support was given it might be chaotic but in a good way. Certainly better than some of the fighting that's been on here lately. Just my oppinion.

[Victoria'smom]

As I do think everyone needs and gets support here I think Miswimmy1 needs a little extra right now.

[peridot28]

I'm sending you big hugs. I know you're going through a lot, and I wish I had a magic wand to send you to make things better. I'll be thinking about you.

[rainbow8]

Miswimmy, here are some hugs for you.

Originally Posted by Screenager

Nice gesture, but I don't think that's fair. There are many people in need of support here, and if everyone got their own thread there would be chaos here.

There's a "Kudos & Affirmations" forum here as well, maybe you'd like to use that.

I think if they want it they can get it by asking or one of there "forum" friends asking.

Originally Posted by Antimatter

I've emailed moderators, am trying to change this. SORRY.

I think it's a great idea. I hope it's okay with the mods.

[~EnlightenMe~]

Originally Posted by Goingtogetthere

I think it's a great idea. I hope it's okay with the mods.

I didn't mean to cause any chaos. I did send a message to 2 mods. and Doc John and I've heard nothing. Sorry if I offended anyone

Miswimmy,
I hope you are doing okay. I know that you had a meeting with your T and parents, are you okay? Thinking about you!!

Originally Posted by Antimatter

I didn't mean to cause any chaos. I did send a message to 2 mods. and Doc John and I've heard nothing. Sorry if I offended anyone

Miswimmy,
I hope you are doing okay. I know that you had a meeting with your T and parents, are you okay? Thinking about you!!

No chaos as far as I'm concerned. It's just the usual some agree, and some don't. You did a sweet thing. Don't stress about it. You are one of the most caring posters, and I'm honored to have the privilege to experience it. Even, when I was a lurker.

Sorry Antimatter, I realize this was for Miswimmy1. I decided to keep my little piece in here. Feel free to chew me out. Hugs for to the both of you.

[~EnlightenMe~]

Feel free to chew me out.

lol, I don't think that is needed.

IT is for Miswimmy, but it can really be for anyone who needs support. OR for anyone who just has something to say

Originally Posted by Antimatter

lol, I don't think that is needed.

IT is for Miswimmy, but it can really be for anyone who needs support. OR for anyone who just has something to say

Fine with me.

Though I just want to send miswimmy1 all the hugs my kingager has refused over the last few years. I think it's about 662,834,982,615 hugs. Surely, this will take a long, long time. I require that she count each one.

So, miswimmy1,I hope you're good with counting. My soon would say, Run for the hills. Thinking about you ((((miswimmy1))))!

[Miswimmy1]

I am good at counting (if i dont get bored and lose count).

[Miswimmy1]

thank you so much for the hugs and the kind words. it means so much to me that ppl care so much about me, as i am a virtual stranger to you all. its quite humbling. i will continue to keep you all posted as I go along this journey...

Originally Posted by Miswimmy1

I am good at counting (if i dont get bored and lose count).

...then you'll just have to start over, and write it as you say it. If you mess up that assignment you'll be forced to learn Chinese finger math and teach it to all interested forum members. I'm first in line, because I'm to lazy to teach myself.

[Bill3]

Cool Bill3.

[Bill3]

It's just the usual some agree, and some don't.

This is really important.

It's easy for me to forget this, and figure that if someone disagrees then I must have screwed up.

Thanks, GTTG!

[adel34]

Really awesome thread! Miswimmy, I hope you're ok tonight. Thinking of you and lots of hugs! You can get through all this.

[granite1]

how you doing today swimmy is your T on break now ? when she going to be back?

[Miswimmy1]

Originally Posted by granite1

how you doing today swimmy is your T on break now ? when she going to be back?

12/15. a long time

i am feeling... uneasy. not awful. just on edge and apprhensive.

[Bill3]

Don't think about or focus on 12/15. Just think about 11/25, 11:08 a.m. (now 12:36 pm )

*****

Maybe you could calibrate your actions to the SUDs distress scale posted earlier? e.g. if I am at 4, I will do X. If I get to 6, I will do Y.

[~EnlightenMe~]

Miswimmy,
There's not too much time to go. I know it has been difficult, and you have doubted that you will be able to reconnect, but I know you will.

You see her the 15th again, right? Thinking about you. . .