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#1
Dec 17, 2012, 07:46 PM
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How dumb i must have looked to every one in that room, why did i let the Ts problems become mine, as T set there and Ts lawyer was yelling at me, your husband sells you doesn't he,i got up and walked out of the room,i really don't how i made it to the door, i can't believe the Judge didn't get mad at me for walking out, when i came back in to the room not thing more was said about my husband, and every time Ts lawyer stated to say any thing that didn't have to do with the $ the judge said we are not going there, i'm really depressed,and so mad at my self
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 adel34, anilam, anonymous112713, Anonymous32517, Anonymous987654321, Bill3, Lauru, learning1, SallyBrown, ShaggyChic_1201
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Dec 17, 2012, 08:13 PM
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 ((SilentHill))T's lawyer clearly doesn't have much of a case. It should be over soon, at least for you.
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#3
Dec 17, 2012, 08:32 PM
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How awful for you! But you not only stood up for yourself, you walked right out on them. You go! 
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| silenthill
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#4
Dec 17, 2012, 08:45 PM
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oh i hope your right, i don't know how much more i can take
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| unaluna
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| CantExplain
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#5
Dec 17, 2012, 09:05 PM
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i did walk out on all of them, you know the supporter that T had with her, well she is a T too, and she had a DOH hearing about to weeks ago at the same place with the same Judge, it makes stop and think
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| ECHOES, learning1
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| Bill3, ECHOES
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#6
Dec 18, 2012, 07:53 AM
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The more we learn about the hearing, the more excruciating it sounds. Yet you (completely on your own) handled the situation really well. You didn't put up with the personal abuse at the hearing and the judge supported you on that.
I think it took amazing strength to walk out of the hearing. |
| SallyBrown, unaluna, ~EnlightenMe~
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#7
Dec 18, 2012, 10:22 AM
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Do you have a lawyer- cause he is not doing his job there...
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#8
Dec 18, 2012, 10:33 AM
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I am sorry that you have had to go through this. No human being, much less a therapist, should be able to use the law to do what she did,and to take advantage of you in the first place was terribly wrong.
I don't think you looked stupid at all. You were brave and right to walk out. |
| ~EnlightenMe~
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Dec 18, 2012, 01:32 PM
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I don't think I'd have had the guts to get up and walk out. You are tough, and brave.
Was it a mistake to, as you said, let T's problems become your problems? Sure. But it's one thing to make a mistake for the GOOD of another person, to do make a mistake in the service of being loving and generous. That does not make you stupid, and don't let that lawyer's attacks lead you to believe that. The level of selfishness, cruelty, viciousness on the part of your former T is appalling. That she believes that her prior actions and these ad hominem attacks are going to make her look in any way innocent -- never mind a good therapist, or even a good human being, as she is very clearly neither, but at the very least innocent of a crime -- is baffling to me. Trust me, you are NOT the one who looks stupid here. And I'm no lawyer and know very little about courtroom procedure, but if I were that attorney and did something so egregious that the person on the stand could literally walk out of the room without any reprimand by the judge... I'm pretty sure I'd want to curl up into a ball and die from shame. Doesn't sound like this guy has that problem, but just know that he SHOULD be ashamed. Not you. Stay strong! |
| Anne2.0, CantExplain, ~EnlightenMe~
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Dec 18, 2012, 03:51 PM
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Wow! I couldn't imagine going through this. You are brave.
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| Bill3, ~EnlightenMe~
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Dec 22, 2012, 02:12 AM
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I have been staying in my pj,i just want to lay on the couch all day,it hurts to even move, my husband wants me to call my dr, but why all she will do is give me more pills, i'm lost
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| Bill3
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#12
Dec 22, 2012, 09:23 AM
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I understand feeling this way. Could you find your 'fight back' place and take some small steps, like not staying in your pj's yet laying on the couch all day if you feel like it?
I have found, for me, that showering and dressing, if possible, is a kind gift to myself and I feel much better for it. If I feel like reading or watching television after that, that is okay!
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Dec 22, 2012, 04:15 PM
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