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Old Feb 20, 2013, 12:46 PM
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I'm having a dilemma about what to work on in T?

My weight
My self esteem
My sexuality (31 and still dont know didn't date much in high school sorry if this is TMI)
Or something else.............(fill in the blank)
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 12:49 PM
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Just the list you gave makes me think they are all connected, maybe try not divide them up in your mind but see how they are connected....any one of those may be a springboard to the bigger picture...just my thoughts
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 01:05 PM
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I agree.... and in my experience the list will grow longer as you stay in therapy. I'd start with how you are feeling today and any experiences you had this week.
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 01:28 PM
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I'm having a dilemma about what to work on in T?

My weight
My self esteem
My sexuality (31 and still dont know didn't date much in high school sorry if this is TMI)
Or something else.............(fill in the blank)
god, this is me exactly, except i am 32. i completely avoid this option in therapy, even though i know i shouldn't
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 01:31 PM
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I'm terrified to bring it up but I feel like that is the topic I need to delve into.
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 03:41 PM
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I'm having a dilemma about what to work on in T?

My weight
My self esteem
My sexuality (31 and still dont know didn't date much in high school sorry if this is TMI)
Or something else.............(fill in the blank)
Add me to the list, only I'm 42, not very happily married and confused as can be in this area. I didn't date at all in high school, my first kiss was when I was 22.

You mentioned your sexuality is the topic you feel like you need to delve into most. If you're comfortable talking about it with your T, I would definitely bring it up the next chance you get. Everything else will come up/be addressed as you go along.

I commend you for considering bringing it up to your T. That's the one thing I can't bring myself to address yet.
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 04:19 PM
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I guess my bigger dilemma isn't who I am but it fits or doesn't fit in to the church I'm preparing to join.
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 04:20 PM
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Mel talk with the priest/preacher/father etc...
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 04:21 PM
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Thanks Lola I will do that.
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Old Feb 20, 2013, 08:44 PM
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Got an appt with the pastor at my parents church Wednesday at 10 am.
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