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And according to the checklist( which I answered completely honestly) I am severely depressed. I am so worried about letting t know how bad I am, she knows I pretend to be ok but if I really let her in I am scared and plus I am afraid if I tell her how bad I really am she will stop me from becoming a t. I don't think she can tell my teachers as she knows them well but I don't trust her not to.
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She can't tell anyone and you can still be a T. In the states T's are required to have a T. My T said he was seeing a T once 4 times a week! Button just be honest and let them help you overcome your issues and it will make you a better T in the long run!
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Not all states require a therapist to have a therapist. The state I live in does not require it (not even supervision is required after a period of time). It does not require a therapist to have ever had therapy themselves either.
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I stand corrected.... thanks SD
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It is compulsory in this country for a t to have a t. I am afraid because she knows all of these ts so well and she often brings up my teachers and it hits home that she could easily mention my name and then it will all spill out.
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In your country - is there no requirement mandating privacy? Here, in my state, a huge deal is made about confidentiality.
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Yeah there is a confidentiality rule but as my first t broke that, I am a little nervous about sharing things with these t's and as this t is my first ts supervisor and she hasn't told me this, a little part of me feels like I can't trust her.
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Something that happened a few months ago made me realize that my T didn't have a very good concept of what it was like to be really seriously suicidal. And that's ok, he doesn't have to know firsthand. But... I couldn't help but think that it would make such a difference if he did. So, for one, no one can prevent you from becoming a T because you struggle with depression. And second, depression doesn't make you any less worthy than anyone else. It's nothing to be ashamed of ![]() |
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Here is a blogger on psychology today who has had issues of her own. There are others - this is just one example.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/...wly-in-therapy |
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I also really think the T will be okay with it. And hopefully helpful. Good luck! EJ |
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I believe therapists try to honor confidentiality but there are little slip ups and situations that I'm surprised to hear they are allowed to discuss clients with other therapists. When I've been a little concerned with it, I've asked my t's to tell me more about the rules, or asked if there were any exceptions, or something like that, in hopes that it reinforces them against slip ups. They might think I'm a little paranoid, but I think it's worth it. I figure the threat to their reputations, let alone their jobs, if they ever get caught slipping up is a pretty significant deterrent and they are pretty careful, but I still catch minor mistakes now and then.
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I doubt you will be the only one training in this position. I have been in training for a different type of therapy and it was scary how many people fell apart at the start. We had no requirement to see a therapist, but it is the ones of us who have that are making a success of things. My t once said she often finds she does some of her best work when she is having her own problems. She said the important thing is to recognise your own problems and admit them to yourself and get help through therapy and supervision. When we were talking about how this could be she talked about maybe subconsciously you are giving out the message that it is ok to hurt you can get through it. Not sure how I feel about this but have acknowledged some truth in it as long as our problems never impose on the client. As others have said it is better to have a t that knows what some of these things feel like.
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I just wanted to pipe in with something.
I have an online friend who is studying to be in the mental health field and she got kicked out of school by her therapist and his disclosures. You are right to be concerned. Thankfully, she was able to still continue but at a different school, but it has been very traumatizing for her. |
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Oh dear, that must have been very hard for them, now I am going to close up and not tell t anything ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Button...just ask your T about confidentiality and your concern about school.
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I don't think she is allowed to do it but I don't trust her not to do it. Quote:
![]() That's a shame about your t, its also a shame that he wasn't able to feel what you felt, it sounds very painful and the support would have eased it a bit. WEll I have had my share of problems but I am worried that it will be on file that I have suicidal tendencies and this could go against me. It's a catch twenty because I know how people feel and want to help others find the light again but it could also mean that I am not mentally able to do this job. Btw, it would help to talk to someone who has been there and been suicidal rather than someone who has read about the feelings and symptoms in a book. Quote:
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I mean, it's totally dishonest, but we all know how people look at people who struggle with mental illness. We have to look out for our own best interests, too, because no one else is going to do that. Last edited by wotchermuggle; Feb 19, 2013 at 09:39 PM. |
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I think if you focus on doing your work, your symptoms will improve with time and the potential issues related to your mental health will resolve. I don't think anyone will be concerned with where you've been; it's where you are that is important when you become a T. |
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