[healed84]

So, H and I will be starting M couseling soon. The hardest part is going to be finding a day and a time that we can all agree on.

I was thinking for ease of appointment making, babysitting, and traveling we could do it either right before or right after my T appointment on Fridays. I am not sure how often we will end up going, b/c we are paying out of pocket, plus me seeing T Twice a week.. Not sure we can afford anything, but once a month.

Sooo.. do you think that will be T overload. I ususally have to really sit down and process what happens in regular T, and then add MT on top of that.. What do you all think?

too much T darling, if its once a month or twice a month, I's try to do it NOT on the same day as T.

[Victoria'smom]

We tend to do MT first and then T. I'd suggest 2x a month.

[pbutton]

I don't think I could do regular T then Marriage T, but maybe Marriage T first wouldn't be so bad.

I am doing Pdoc and T back to back next week. That should be interesting.

[photostotake]

I'm starting MC next week with a new T, but still in the same office as my own T. My T recommended never having both on the same day. Too much to process and work through for one day. As it is, I see my personal T next Monday and start seeing the MC with my DH on Tuesday and possibly a 2nd appt with my T later in the week. Seems like a lot, but necessary at this point.

[likelife]

Finding a mutually doable time for MC can be a nightmare. When my partner and I went, there were times when I would do MC first and then individual T right after (with time in between for driving). It was a little overwhelming sometimes, and I invariably ended up processing the MC session with individual T. Sometimes that was annoying because there was other stuff I wanted to talk about. But if you're seeing individual T twice weekly, maybe it wouldn't be so bad.