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Old May 07, 2013, 03:31 PM
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We like you, so just post already.

Please be kind, because we all have been hurt enough.

Sometimes this thread moves quickly, and a post might get overlooked. Don't take offense if this happens to you, just post again. Sometimes yelling COOL WHIP works.

A wise suggestion from Stopdog: Contacting T while intoxicated or impaired doesn't usually turn out well.

Eat healthy and post your recipes.
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Old May 07, 2013, 03:36 PM
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Recipe idea:

Hot Crumpet and melted cheese & chive sauce yummy!
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Old May 07, 2013, 03:53 PM
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Here's my couch.

Couch 49 - And the dance goes on

So eager just to be out in the woods.
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Old May 07, 2013, 04:10 PM
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Afternoon couch. It was so nice not having to ride the bus today. So much less stress.

It's teacher/staff appreciation week at school this week, so the voluteers filled the mailroom with breakfast goodies today, so I pigged out on doughnuts. I only had 5. Krispy Kreme is so addicting.

Thursday the volunteers are serving us all lunch, so I won't have to pack a lunch that day. It's a pot luck type of lunch, so I am sure I will find something I will eat.

Two of the 8th graders' moms will be out of town for the graduation/awards celebration. But, both of their dads can come, so at least they will have someone there, even if it isn't who they live with. That's just a little sad...they can't have their mommies there when they are both momma's boys.

Well, I need to go eat supper. Be back on later.
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Old May 07, 2013, 04:25 PM
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so we ended out talking some about what i do outside of T and bout the scrapbooking i do and my worries about going to this show with the woman who runs the classes i go to. she thinks that i keep my world very small. i told her i don't like that word .that i feel what i do is to keep my world manageable. that i am happy with staying home and staying out of situations that will cause me harm. that will cause my world to crash. i hope she isnt dissapointed with me.
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Old May 07, 2013, 05:13 PM
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Good job granite! You talked to her even though you didn't feel like it. There's nothing to be disappointed about. I've got to run and coach my daughter's softball team so I dint have time to stay here right now, but just wanted to say, good job!
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Old May 07, 2013, 05:38 PM
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Old May 07, 2013, 05:45 PM
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Hi Healed... how are you?

Granite... great job talking about your life. Your t said she didn't know what you do so now she does. I don't think she is making judgements about you just observations. I like that you pointed out it wasn't small it was manageable.
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Old May 07, 2013, 05:49 PM
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Well, I went to sign in this morning when I got to school and had a sticky note on my sign in sheet from the secretary to see her.

Since there is over 2 weeks left in school, I couldn't just "Stop" riding. I had to sign a resignation form to quit riding. No biggie. It just makes it more official and non-reversible. Felt a little weird making it permanent, but it's better for me this way. So much weight is off my shoulders now.
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Old May 07, 2013, 05:51 PM
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Squirrel doesn't it feel good to make a decision that is in your best interest.... not the schools or your checking accounts but really looking out for YOU!
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Old May 07, 2013, 05:56 PM
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I'm lonely in a house full of men... I really do think sister wives would be the way to go...
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:00 PM
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I'm lonely in a house full of men... I really do think sister wives would be the way to go...

I want sister wives wives .... so find a sister and look me up.... Ill work the wives can stay home
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:06 PM
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W is in the house reminiscing with an old male friend who is going to fix a few things for us.... She seems happy, at the end of the day I just want this to be over and her to be happy. I'm afraid I won't be able to live alone.. . I was thinking roommate.... what yall think?
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:08 PM
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Lola...do you have any gay male friends that could be your roommate?

Lola have you ever lived alone? I haven't... lived at home with parents, went away to college and had roommates and then got married right before finishing college.
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:10 PM
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Hi guys!

I think a roommate is a good idea Lola. The hardest part of getting a roommate is trying to find someone you can live with though.
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:10 PM
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Yes I have lived alone, very briefly and no gay male friends... I have NO friends..LOL I have a straight male friend who may be interested in rooming up.

* I need a live in Nanny, who will teach me stuff....
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:11 PM
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Good job with T today granite.

Do you feel like the conversation you had with T went smoothly? It sounds like it did.
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:11 PM
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W is in the house reminiscing with an old male friend who is going to fix a few things for us.... She seems happy, at the end of the day I just want this to be over and her to be happy. I'm afraid I won't be able to live alone.. . I was thinking roommate.... what yall think?
i think a room mate would be ok but i think that you should really be working on your fear of being alone?? have you ever had to be alone lola?
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:12 PM
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I just went down into my kitchen and found a trail of ants. I hate ants.

Must be that time of year again.

Gotta go get the ant traps.
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:13 PM
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I often wonder if I could do it... you know not have someone...other people to run interference and keep me from really having to deal with me.
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:14 PM
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Squirrel doesn't it feel good to make a decision that is in your best interest.... not the schools or your checking accounts but really looking out for YOU!
Yes, it does.

Today was relaxing. I had extra time in the morning and more time in the afternoon...I actually got an afternoon instead of getting home after 5pm.

I know my parents (both sets) would tell me I made the "wrong" decision, but what they don't know can't hurt them and I am not going to openly tell them.

All that matters is that I am fine with my decision. And I am at peace with it, so all is good.
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:16 PM
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I have lived alone very briefly... but I am better at caring for others then me. Beside alone and I will hibernate and become agoraphobic, I did it before.

Granite I am so glad you T went well...
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:17 PM
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I so get the live in nanny thing... you know when you didn't have a mother engaged in your life...you just don't know things...

I remember being 18 in college and having my college roommate stand outside the bathroom talking me through how to use a tampon... honestly I had a mother who lived in my house every day of my life but where was she...
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:18 PM
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I'm hungry. Time for an after dinner snack. I think I feel like roasted peanuts.

Yep, going to go eat some goobers.

Be back in a bit.
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Old May 07, 2013, 06:20 PM
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Good job with T today granite.

Do you feel like the conversation you had with T went smoothly? It sounds like it did.
i do but she said some things that bothered me .would this statement bother anyone here.
we were talking about me going with this woman to a stamp show and she said. you tend to avoid anything that you think might scare you....exsept comming here but then she said that it is her job to scare me a little. i said to her please don't do that .and she again said "but this is my job"
the part about me avoiding everything but going there kind of made me feel she was anoyed with me and feeling trapped and couldn't seem to get rid of me.
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