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Old May 09, 2013, 05:39 AM
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I didn't even need to say anything. It was like t could see straight into my heart. She knew I was upset and afraid today, she looked at me and held her arms open and I went to her and we hugged for a long time. I broke down and sobbed for ages and she held me tight.
I never had a loving relationship with anyone, let alone anyone who understood me.
Afterwards I sat in silence and t just sat with me, she knew exactly what I needed and it felt so good.
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Old May 09, 2013, 05:54 AM
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That's beautiful! I'm glad you have such a wonderful relationship with your T.
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Old May 09, 2013, 05:59 AM
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Wow - that sounds awesome. Having someone love and care for you like that is really awesome
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Old May 09, 2013, 06:09 AM
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She is the best. I know I complain about her sometimes but she is the best for me. I know I can trust her to know what is best for me and that she cares. And sometimes this scares me and I want to run.
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Old May 09, 2013, 07:29 AM
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I didn't even need to say anything. It was like t could see straight into my heart. She knew I was upset and afraid today, she looked at me and held her arms open and I went to her and we hugged for a long time. I broke down and sobbed for ages and she held me tight.
I never had a loving relationship with anyone, let alone anyone who understood me.
Afterwards I sat in silence and t just sat with me, she knew exactly what I needed and it felt so good.
I am so happy for you.

I have zero expectations that my T would ever do that. Encouragement is just not her thing... she walks a fine line between responding, and creating a dependency.
Yours doesn't seem to have any difficulty with that at all. I think it will be very healing for you!
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Old May 09, 2013, 09:20 AM
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Hey sitting, have you asked your t for encouragement. Maybe she doesn't think you needed it. It is so healing already for me. I can't even describe how much I needed her to do that. She has great intuition
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Old May 09, 2013, 10:43 AM
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I'm very happy for you! I wish my T would do that. It's great that yours was there for you the way you wanted and needed. It sounds beautiful.
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Old May 09, 2013, 10:44 AM
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I'm so happy for you! That sounds wonderful.
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Old May 09, 2013, 10:51 AM
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Wow I´m also very happy for you. It sounds like a wish came true (well mine for sure).
To be comforted and held and cared for. I´m very glad this was done for you.
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Old May 09, 2013, 02:08 PM
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Hey sitting, have you asked your t for encouragement.
yes.
my paraphrase, it's not in her task list.
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Old May 09, 2013, 05:21 PM
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Thats wonderful
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