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Old Jun 03, 2013, 06:53 AM
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I went to Goodwill yesterday to buy some picture frames. I don't need the glass for what I'm going to use the frames for. I instantly thought of this thread and smashing the glass. And then I thought I'd need some goggles or something, because it wouldn't be very safe
Maybe smashing glass just isn't for you.....and that is OK.
(i had a friend who used to toss empty cans in the air and smack them with a stick...
when i was young, i remember stick ball as feeling very good...especially on a summer night

So/ how are you doing?
Thanks for this!
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Old Jun 03, 2013, 09:19 AM
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Thanks for asking, winter. I'm actually doing a lot better. My new T seems much more competent, and I actually leave feeling better more often than not, which is such a stark contrast with exT.

I still find myself going through bouts of rage in my head, but they're softened a bit. Or maybe just more balanced with grief. I had a lovely weekend with my family, for the first time in a long time.
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rainbow8, unaluna
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Old Jun 03, 2013, 09:23 AM
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I just read this. She was sooooo wrong in starting this email exchange with you to begin with. What is wrong with her?? She had no right to ask you for confirmation that you received her termination letter. That was just an unconscious ploy. I know it doesn't help you to know she was effed up, and that she is so totally mishandling this right now, but all this cannot be handled by email. She is being not just ridiculous, but unethical.
I agree with you hank. It was one of your earlier posts on another thread that helped me to better separate out what my T was doing from what I was doing and why it was making me feel so crazy.

New T talked about exT responding to me in ways that derived from her own woundednes, and her own non-adaptive coping strategies. Something about that really helped it to click for me that I wasn't at fault. As new T said, maybe there were some things I did that I wasn't particularly proud of, but as the professional, it was her responsibility to be the bigger person, so to speak, and not let her own stuff get in the way.
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Old Jun 03, 2013, 09:23 AM
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That is good to hear about the better parts.
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