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![]() (i had a friend who used to toss empty cans in the air and smack them with a stick... when i was young, i remember stick ball as feeling very good...especially on a summer night ![]() So/ how are you doing? |
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Thanks for asking, winter. I'm actually doing a lot better. My new T seems much more competent, and I actually leave feeling better more often than not, which is such a stark contrast with exT.
I still find myself going through bouts of rage in my head, but they're softened a bit. Or maybe just more balanced with grief. I had a lovely weekend with my family, for the first time in a long time. |
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New T talked about exT responding to me in ways that derived from her own woundednes, and her own non-adaptive coping strategies. Something about that really helped it to click for me that I wasn't at fault. As new T said, maybe there were some things I did that I wasn't particularly proud of, but as the professional, it was her responsibility to be the bigger person, so to speak, and not let her own stuff get in the way. |
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That is good to hear about the better parts.
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