[confused and dazed]

T... what am I supposed to talk about? You keep saying anything... but anything does not mean anything to me! I need liments, boundres or what ever you want to call it!!! I hate that your so nice to me, understand me and remember every thing I have ever said! Shoot.. you don't even take notes!! Why cant you make it easy and tell me to leave? or raise your rates!

Sorry.. just needed to rant and rave.....

[jkbob]

lol sounds like your T is pretty awesome actually

[LadyShadow]

Originally Posted by confused and dazed

T... what am I supposed to talk about? You keep saying anything... but anything does not mean anything to me! I need liments, boundres or what ever you want to call it!!! I hate that your so nice to me, understand me and remember every thing I have ever said! Shoot.. you don't even take notes!! Why cant you make it easy and tell me to leave? or raise your rates!

Sorry.. just needed to rant and rave.....

Sure rant and rave all you want!! That's what PC is for!

Shucks, you don't need limits, just let it all pour out. LOL. That's what I do.

[confused and dazed]

Originally Posted by jkbob

lol sounds like your T is pretty awesome actually

T is the best... but I really can not figure out what "anything" is Every time I think of something, It sounds dumb (to me) and I shut down.... T says he is interested in everything about me, but I'm not even interested in me... makes it so hard!

[likelife]

It seems like it would feel safer if T provided at least some guidelines. "Anything" is so broad as to be overwhelming, I'd imagine. Has your T given you any suggestions for what to talk about?

Although, what you said about wishing T would rant back at you makes me think that you're pretty accustomed to being limited in terms of what is "acceptable " to present to others.

So I guess what I'm saying is that there are at least two ways to look at it. If you've been "censored" in the past for what you've tried to bring to others, it might be helpful to push yourself a little and trust that when T means you can talk about anything, you really can talk about anything.

On the other hand, if being "censored" hasn't been a problem for you, asking T for help with narrowing down the field of topics might be more effective.

[confused and dazed]

Originally Posted by likelife

It seems like it would feel safer if T provided at least some guidelines. "Anything" is so broad as to be overwhelming, I'd imagine. Has your T given you any suggestions for what to talk about?

Although, what you said about wishing T would rant back at you makes me think that you're pretty accustomed to being limited in terms of what is "acceptable " to present to others.

So I guess what I'm saying is that there are at least two ways to look at it. If you've been "censored" in the past for what you've tried to bring to others, it might be helpful to push yourself a little and trust that when T means you can talk about anything, you really can talk about anything.

On the other hand, if being "censored" hasn't been a problem for you, asking T for help with narrowing down the field of topics might be more effective.

In T I have never been censored. In real life.... well that's another story.

I think guidelines would be great! T doesn't seem to give my any. " I can say anything and everything" to T.. but that makes it more hard on me. We have been having this same discussion for at least 4 weeks. One of us just doesn't get it (lol,,, I know, its prolly me) T is open to anything, has put up with much BS from me, and also I have "quit" at least 2x a month.....why the hell does T put up with me, when I don't even want to....
sigh....
getting sleepy... this rant could be do to lack of sleep. (which comes up in T also)