How do you imagine your T at home?

I picture my T chatting with friends.

XT: sitting at his laptop googling hard porn.

Ick.

Yikes, Wikid! I need to replace that image: I suspect that right now, my T is visiting family across the country, and especially playing with his young great grand kids!

This is so weird to think about. I can't even imagine what my T does at home... she's kind of mysterious that way. Maybe she drinks tea and does yoga, she seems like that type.

Every time I see her out of the office I am almost shocked, its weird to think that Ts have lives sometimes.

LOL...this causes me to think back to when I was a child and would see a teacher in a store or wherever..I would be like...huh? you leave the school??
It's sort of like that for me with my T..(on an emotional level) I really don't visualize T outside of her office...although I am sure she has a life.

Paperwork.

One of my Ts I don't ever think about what he is like at home...the other said he has books all over his bed and on the table next to his bed, as do I. So I imagine him drowning in stacks of books...

I've honestly never really thought about what my T does at home. We have lots of common interest,but I can't really picture her doing any of the things I like at home. I can see her trying out a new recipe,she says she loves cooking and her and her new husband being really cute in the kitchen.
I've never wondered if she had a 2 door garage or a garden. If she has pets or if she spends all her free time at her parents. I've never wondered what the colors in her house look like. But for some reason I keep seeing mason jars with flowers...idk why!!
Honestly I'm not that interested,kinda the less I know about her home life and what it looks like,the better. I can respect her privacy enough to know that her home is hers.

She is with her kids a lot as she works part time. But as of late I can't get past picturing her being intimate with her husband

.. Sigh..

I picture him reading and/or listening to music. And I always imagine him as being very relaxed and in a good mood. I know rationally that he isn't, any more than other people, but that's how I imagine him when he's not working. Probably because I also imagine that he dislikes working with me

I don't usually imagine private life of my Therapist. It's too painful for me in some sense. I know she has her own life. However I'm not in her life. I think she has children and she loves them, she takes care of them and she is proud of them I have never had it in my life. Gee! Too much of it

I picture my T doing some serene activity like gardening, meditating, or painting. I can't imagine how she might act around her family, but I know she at least has a husband. It would pain me to imagine her with kids though.

Why do you imagine he dislikes to work with yot Mastadon?

Because anything else is inconceivable. He hasn't said that he dislikes me - that would be very unprofessional, and he doesn't act as if he dislikes me, either. It's just my assumption about what anybody who sees me for what I am would think of me.

actually I don't. Is that weird?

Ugh, I've been in this place before in the past. It's not fun

How did you move past it? I've brought up everything else to T but this not so much wanting to.

Do you know why it is so difficult for you?

No I don't. Jealousy, being envious perhaps, but I think there is something deeper than that.