[marcel83]

Sorry.
Canceled.......

[tinyrabbit]

I read your post and noticed that you're assuming how your T feels - that she's angry and bored. But you don't know that.

These are all very normal worries, btw.

[marcel83]

Originally Posted by tinyrabbit

I read your post and noticed that you're assuming how your T feels - that she's angry and bored. But you don't know that.

These are all very normal worries, btw.

She told me that she had been angry with me yesterday. She has yawned today. Ok, she can be bored. i'm not allowed to forbid her to do that.

Right, maybe these are normal feelings etc., but they are mine. I feel a little if you invalidate them...but that's my own perception propably.

[content30]

I didn't see your post but yawn doesn't equal bored. My T had had days where she yawned a few times, but I see her on a day that she works 12 hours (well, 11, with a lunch), and I usually see her in her right hour, often after she just ate. She had two kids and a husband. So, I just assume she is a bit tired or just yawning for whatever reason...not necessarily bored. She's also outright apologized for yawning and stated that I am not boring her. She's been a at for a long time. So, I imagine she's sensitive to all the thoughts that a client may have.

I'm sorry you're feeling poorly about therapy/your T relationship, though. I hope that you can talk to her about it and sort it out.

[marcel83]

Originally Posted by content30

I didn't see your post but yawn doesn't equal bored. My T had had days where she yawned a few times, but I see her on a day that she works 12 hours (well, 11, with a lunch), and I usually see her in her right hour, often after she just ate. She had two kids and a husband. So, I just assume she is a bit tired or just yawning for whatever reason...not necessarily bored. She's also outright apologized for yawning and stated that I am not boring her. She's been a at for a long time. So, I imagine she's sensitive to all the thoughts that a client may have.

I'm sorry you're feeling poorly about therapy/your T relationship, though. I hope that you can talk to her about it and sort it out.

Thank you very much for your words! I have nobody to share my feelings now .I have written post earlier but I feel so dissapointed and bed today (because of my therapy, because of my own) that I decided to canceled it. I should be very bed if I don't think about my T like you do. In rotation I'm angry with her, I'm angry with myself.

I'm sorry to hear you're feeling frustrated and disappointed, marcel. I hope you can discuss it with your T. Don't be angry with yourself about how you are feeling.

[marcel83]

Originally Posted by Mastodon

I'm sorry to hear you're feeling frustrated and disappointed, marcel. I hope you can discuss it with your T. Don't be angry with yourself about how you are feeling.

Thank you Mastadon . It's so kind to get a hug , even if it's virtual one. I feel better today. My T was angry with me, or saying precisely she was frustrated with me...so I got angry as well etc....I wish she would take care of me forever...she can't do that...Blah, blah, blah and all that stuff. I hope it will be better only if I do something with the end of my therapy.. Thank you for your support