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May 03, 2013, 09:04 AM
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was talking about not being able to 'use' T to a great degree for comfort. T replied, "is it you cannot trust you are welcome to use me for comfort?"
That word, welcome, stuck with me. scared me, yes I am afraid I am not welcome. But hearing it said and acknowledging T does welcome me to 'take' what I need from her and she knows that doesn't mean I dont appriciate her, but that its ok to 'use' her. Hi all from Mouse! |
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May 03, 2013, 12:05 PM
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Hi Mouse,
Sometimes we take comfort subconsciously before we can trust. Keep going 
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May 03, 2013, 03:36 PM
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Jun 26, 2013, 09:32 PM
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Do you feel more welcome now?
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Jun 26, 2013, 10:30 PM
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Interesting. Because before, i would have been just incredibly inhibited around the puppy dog. But this time, I took my welcome whether I was welcome or not! Dog equals welcome. Not defense! I mean i leaned in.
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Jun 27, 2013, 02:24 AM
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Oh Hankster. Therapys about getting to our deepest feelings. Not show & tell. We're adults ffs! Yes proberbly mention one has a puppy or even she a photo. But taking the bloody dog in. Ffs!
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Jun 27, 2013, 08:30 AM
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Oh I should or could have said - my t is a child psychologist and the client with the puppy is a child. I have seen the child and her adult before, but not the dog.
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Jun 27, 2013, 09:01 AM
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Life changing words. I still use my husband's when he said he was not laughing at me or with me but enjoying me. The idea that someone would enjoy me. . .
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Jun 27, 2013, 09:19 AM
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Jun 27, 2013, 09:57 AM
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This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
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