Couch 60: Don't forget the beachball!

unaluna · Sep 10, 2013, 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by WikidPissah

get this:
(hold your gasps)
((don't judge))

my mother is living with me TEMPORARILY. Ugh.
Can I please complain without being told I am stupid?

The circumstances came up where it was either here or the homeless shelter. I am looking at apartments every day, and should have her placed by Oct 1.

those were my choices too before I moved in with my mom. Maybe they will let you stay there a few nights? Oh you meant HER... bwahaha not really funny but better to laugh than to cry.

Eta: caught up now. I cant believe he dropped the old lady off at a shelter. Seriously? Even I wouldn't do that.

unaluna · Sep 10, 2013, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Jersey 2.0

My therapist is the best. She told me when I saw the trash bag with the sign, that I should've removed the sign..typed my own that said " Please put this trash bag back where I left it. Sincerely, your neighbor" and left it on the outside of the gate of the dumpster. lol

ETA: When and if the association calls, I am just going to tell them that they should monitor the area more closely as there are trash pickers and dumpster divers around here.

The reason they gave at my mom's place is to keep the rats and raccoons away. They dont really have a maintenance staff. Her garbage rule was you had to use bought trash bags, you couldn't just use discarded plastic shopping bags. She argued with me but she ended up giving in to the board. She didnt like spending money to throw stuff away in!

This reminds me of when I used to get all upset when I got called to my boss's office. It is transference, a lot of it, you know. Oh which reminds me, I have to answer my jury summons. Stg like that would have upset me before. Any authority.

CantExplain · Sep 10, 2013, 04:52 PM

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Originally Posted by WikidPissah

Brother's house is really old, and a wreck. Holes in the bathtub. No working sink. Etc. And icky.

((Wiki))

Conjecture: The way people live says more about their priorities than their income. That's why lottery winners get back where they started so soon.

CantExplain · Sep 10, 2013, 05:12 PM

Perhaps cycling through anger, despair, apathy and hope is normal? Perhaps that's just the way I grieve.

Sep 10, 2013, 05:32 PM

My landlord just told me that if the association calls them, that they are going to tell them they could take the trash bag and shove it up their ***!

granite1 · Sep 10, 2013, 05:49 PM

lol perfect and I love your T's answer to it all also

Ike McCaslin · Sep 10, 2013, 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Readytostop

Hi Ike....dont usually see you in these parts in the morning

Hi Ready. I sometimes check in to read a little at breakfast time.

Sep 10, 2013, 06:11 PM

Hey Ike! Hows things?

Ike McCaslin · Sep 10, 2013, 06:19 PM

HI BPA, I'm OK, you?

Sep 10, 2013, 06:20 PM

so-so. A bit up, a bit down. I just wish i'd choose a mood and stick with it. Now I'm medicated everyone (my ex) seems to think i have some control over them now.

Sep 10, 2013, 06:22 PM

I'm waiting for my disability to be processed, I had misunderstanding with my T over his specialist report, I sent him all the wrong info i said he should have asked for what he wanted! He replied Touche!

Ike McCaslin · Sep 10, 2013, 06:25 PM

I've been in my house less than a month and I have already run afoul of the HOA. We got a letter introducing us to the community, with code to the keypad, two arm bands for the pool(not included in envelope though mentioned in the letter), and a reminder that all improvements must be approved in advance by the board.You know things like fences, swimming pools, satellite dishes. Wait, did you say satellite dish? Uh-oh, I already have one of those-got it the third or fourth day. Should I confess or wait until they send me a nasty note?

Ike McCaslin · Sep 10, 2013, 06:28 PM

Good luck with the disability. Is your T admitting some fault? Good for him.

Sep 10, 2013, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Ike McCaslin

I've been in my house less than a month and I have already run afoul of the HOA. We got a letter introducing us to the community, with code to the keypad, two arm bands for the pool(not included in envelope though mentioned in the letter), and a reminder that all improvements must be approved in advance by the board.You know things like fences, swimming pools, satellite dishes. Wait, did you say satellite dish? Uh-oh, I already have one of those-got it the third or fourth day. Should I confess or wait until they send me a nasty note?

I'm fascinated with these communities you have over there. Are they like estates and you have rules for how high your fence can be etc. We have very few of these over here.

Ike McCaslin · Sep 10, 2013, 06:33 PM

More like douche bags on a power trip. But that's just my opinion.

Sep 10, 2013, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Ike McCaslin

Good luck with the disability. Is your T admitting some fault? Good for him.

My T is always saying I need to ask for exactly what I want or I'll get what people think I want. He asked me for more info reagrding the report I didn't the forms would be much use to him so i didn't email them. Turns out he wanted the forms, well he should have asked. shouldn't he. I didn't do it deliberately though.
It also didn't help that it was one of those when my brain checked out and I can't really remember much of that day.

Ike McCaslin · Sep 10, 2013, 06:36 PM

Seems reasonable to me.

Sep 10, 2013, 06:51 PM

I thought so.

Ike McCaslin · Sep 10, 2013, 06:53 PM

Oh, thought you had left me. Where do you stand on alt country? Bluegrass? Are you strictly a rock and roller? Inquiring minds and all.

Sep 10, 2013, 06:56 PM

I dont know why I let it upset me so when my H does this s hit but it really makes me feel like i mdont exist... But I will never ever let him see me upset wont give him the satisfaction...

Made 16 meatballs enough for each of us to have 4 and bought sub rolls where the four meatballs just fit on the rolls and had a nice salad too. My older son made himself one and had salad on plate too. I sat there and watched my H make two sandwiches for himself... I said who are they for.... He said whats the big deal there is four left for my little son. He didnt even think about me. This is just another example..

But for some reason tonight.... This has me sobbing...(obviously I left the house for I will never ever let him see me cry) and this is not really about meatballs.

Ike McCaslin · Sep 10, 2013, 06:59 PM

Oh Ready, that is so selfish it makes me angry.

Sep 10, 2013, 07:00 PM

Ike Ive never heard alt country but I'll give it a try Bluegrass is ok. Something clown posse are they alt country?

Sep 10, 2013, 07:01 PM

He's a real arse anyway. You have every right to be upset ready

murray · Sep 10, 2013, 07:02 PM

So sorry Ready. That's so unkind. I know you don't want to give him the satisfaction but it might be worth pointing out how messed up this behavior is. Could he perhaps have thought you already fixed yourself a plate? Just mind boggling.....but I'd want to make sure that your sons know that you count too.

Sep 10, 2013, 07:02 PM

I dont know why I didnt say thank you and take one off his plate. He always says when I do bring it up.... Oh I just didnt think or well I didnt mean anything by it... But thats the kind of bull that manipulative people say to drive you nuts

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