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Sep 12, 2013, 07:29 PM
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Sep 12, 2013, 07:55 PM
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Sounds like she is still inexperienced. Or maybe she doesn't realize she is doing it. Or maybe she is just excited about her job lol. My T is an intern too, she does talk a lot, but she listens just as well. Maybe you should just tell her flat out at the beginning of session - I'd like you to really listen to me today. I appreciate your efforts to enforce positive coping mechanisms - but you simply aren't hearing me.
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A majorly depressed, anxious and dependent, schizotypal hypomanic beautiful mess ...[just a rebel to the world with no place to go...  ]
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Sep 12, 2013, 08:02 PM
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I had one of those a couple months ago and ran for the door. I couldn't take it.
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Sep 12, 2013, 08:33 PM
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Oh my T does the talking.....I just nod up and down or left and right....every now and then I will say something.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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Sep 13, 2013, 06:04 AM
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I wouldn't be able to cope with this. I wasn't listened to as a child and I actually have this fear that if my T speaks, I won't be allowed to speak again for the rest of the session. Illogical, but it's coming from a very young place.
It helps a lot that my T waits patiently in silence for me to speak. However, that's just me and my T. Sometimes Ts get it wrong - have you talked to her about it? |
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Sep 13, 2013, 09:45 AM
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My anxiety and fear or so bad I won't request to stop seeing her, my pdoc is in the same office and she makes me see the T before her.
Come november I will be at a new pdocs office, This T has been horrible. |
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Sep 13, 2013, 09:54 AM
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I need my T to talk a bit. If she doesn't, it's a very quiet session. Maybe someday I won't need her to ask me questions to be able to talk.
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Sep 13, 2013, 12:06 PM
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#9
Sep 13, 2013, 03:23 PM
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Quote:
My inurance runs out in november, so I'm up **** creek without a paddle |
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