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Old Sep 25, 2013, 06:35 PM
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Come back home. She has been overseas for two years for a family emergency. She is going to come home, she says, just doesnt know when she will be freed up to do so. I beg her to come home all the time though
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Old Sep 25, 2013, 06:40 PM
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I would ask him to stop wearing THAT shirt, it shows too much of his chest. Who am I kidding, its what I go hoping to see.
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Old Sep 25, 2013, 07:28 PM
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Have office hours in MY town once a week, so I don't have to make the hour drive to see her in hers.

And, this sounds weird, but I have this overwhelming desire to put my forehead against hers, just for a little while, and let our "energies" mingle that way. I'm a weirdo, but a harmless one.
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Old Sep 25, 2013, 07:36 PM
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To be able to see me more than just once a week. I feel like one hour a week just isn't enough.
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Old Sep 25, 2013, 07:41 PM
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Be transported to a parallel universe where she's my patient.
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Old Sep 25, 2013, 08:56 PM
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LOL tinyrabbit....one T to adopt me and one to marry me...not really

but a long hug from either would be nice

Last edited by growlycat; Sep 25, 2013 at 09:02 PM. Reason: a long what??? missing a word
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Old Sep 25, 2013, 09:13 PM
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I want a full explanation and an apology every day for the next month, plus an apology on Thanksgiving Day and another one 6 months from now (because I'll never recover and he should not be allowed to forget it, like nothing ever happened). [Yes, I've thought about this before today]

Wish I were answering this under better circumstances. If things were different, I would ask for his support, compassion and thoughtful concern.
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Old Sep 25, 2013, 09:52 PM
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I want a full explanation and an apology every day for the next month, plus an apology on Thanksgiving Day and another one 6 months from now (because I'll never recover and he should not be allowed to forget it, like nothing ever happened). [Yes, I've thought about this before today]

Wish I were answering this under better circumstances. If things were different, I would ask for his support, compassion and thoughtful concern.
LOVE it. You deserve that.
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Old Sep 26, 2013, 12:05 AM
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I wish I could summon her at will... like a genie in a bottle. When things are really bad and I miss her, I wish she could be there in person. Or a magical thing that sessions just happen when I need them most instead of at an arbitrary time.
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Old Sep 26, 2013, 12:21 AM
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Oooh, T in a bottle, I like it! It would be great to be able to shrink down like I Dream of Jeannie (sorry, non-old-non-Americans) and join her in her pillow-strewn abode!
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Old Sep 26, 2013, 03:29 AM
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Be immortal (and happy and healthy).
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Old Sep 26, 2013, 04:39 AM
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Actually listen to me when I tell her that this isn't working instead of just telling me that I need to try harder. I am trying. This isn't working.

Take me seriously when I tell her I'm in danger of sui and actually do something besides just sit there looking scared.

Give me some sort of crisis plan that does NOT involve the same four coping skills that she continually gives me.

Refer me to someone experienced enough to actually help me. I appreciate her love, but she needs to love me enough to recognize that she's in over her head.
Sounds like she's not right for you.
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Old Sep 26, 2013, 04:41 AM
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Love me (not romantically)
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Old Sep 27, 2013, 02:17 PM
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Hold me and hold my hand when I'm crying instead of sitting across from me staring at me. Maybe be my mom too? Yea, that would be nice
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Old Sep 27, 2013, 05:43 PM
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...Treat me like a friend.. not just a client of yours...?
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What would you like to ask your T to do? ANYTHING is possible!
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Old Sep 27, 2013, 05:58 PM
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Figure out how to use a computer so we could Skype while I'm overseas.
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Old Sep 28, 2013, 12:53 AM
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To give me an appointment when I need one, instead of making me wait a month because he is so booked up. I would like him to just magically find space for me in his schedule. Voila!
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Old Sep 28, 2013, 04:04 AM
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Come back from holiday. Like NOW. Or better yet, be back since yesterday, lol lol
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